Good morning everyone. Yes, I am connecting with you after a very long time. I think it's going to be a close to a month. So today is June 3rd and I decided to record a one episode no matter what.
A part of me was more focused on the masculine energy of, hey, Lalita, you must and you should share the wisdom you gathered from the book, from reading the book, emotional intelligence resilience from Howard Business Review Press. This is a book that my daughter and daughter gave me when I visited them. So as I said, the key action words are must and should be with me here. About me wanted or wants to share my experience of doing Deepak Chopra's 21 Days, Activating the Divine Feminine, the Path to Wholeness.
The key action word here is wants, wants. So there it was should and must, masculine energy and here it is wants. Okay. So here is what I'm actually doing.
Okay. I call it Divine guidance or Divine intervention. I disconnected myself from myself. I disconnected myself from myself.
I know it's going to be a little funny for you, but be with me and became an objective observer like watching a natural scenery. To give you my example, for the last few days, my natural scenery watching that I don't watch television much, but then I love watching natural scenery. I consider it as a biggest, huge gift of divine. So watching the beautiful Bayview of Miami Florida Beach last few days.
I was doing that. And now in New Jersey, it's raining, not raining heavily, but I can see the showers and beautiful greenery. Okay. So just watching these absolutely no judgment, just watching, just watching.
Okay. So I became an objective observer. Okay. Now let me describe how the automatic steps from the divine intelligence or as a divine guidance or as a divine intervention came when I was debating between the sure, the first and what?
Okay. Step one, I opened the anchor app. After a long time, I'm opening an anchor app to record. Okay.
So I was a little upper and say, well, you know, whether the app thinks I've changed any new rules or whatever. So I opened the anchor app to see when I recorded the last episode. It was on May 4. Okay.
So tomorrow it's going to be a month. Okay. Right now, I'm truly thinking, feeling, and I'm all set to do one episode today. I realized that I'm truly internalizing the statements from two of my listeners.
I wouldn't I mean, I just said it as statement, but actually it's I would say it is their true feelings. So one of my listeners texted me and I was like, when are you starting your next podcast series missing your hello, everyone? Wow. That is what a wonderful, beautiful emotional connection.
You know, I really, really thank that listener for that. And as I know, she mentioned, this is another listener who said, nice profile, Lolita, aren't you doing any more podcasts? What a beautiful, wonderful connection I feel when I hear when I read those comments. It's it's it's it's as someone is waiting, someone wants.
It's not someone for me. It's my it's one of my listener. It's one of my friends. So I thank you.
Thank you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for nudging as always. So now you can see a pattern, you know, you can see a pattern that there is a part of me. And that's what I'm going to describe in my in my today's episode about how you set a goal for something and how your different energies, masculine and feminine energies move you through and all that.
Okay. So once again, to read the second listeners comment to this nice profile, Lolita, aren't you doing any more podcasts? Well, this means a lot of my inner evolving Lolita wants to help explore the magnificent self in each of you. And this inner evolving Lolita is also very, very happy that she's acknowledged by her listeners and found listeners who found value in her episode.
Okay, be with me here. So as I'm writing the content for today's episode, I want to share what I learned about how it feels when I set out to do something that I'm passionate about in a certain way and how it does not turn out to be the way I expected. Okay, but how there is something, how you can be me and you know, I'm saying something what I learned, it is not it is not just to say that I did it or no, not in that way, but it's just the thing that I want to do really explore yourself, your inner self. So, so but how you are driven by your true self, what your true self wants.
Okay, that's what I want to explain in step by step, process today. So first, I went back to the source, right? Why did I start the podcast? So I started the podcast in September 2020, when I turned 60 years, when I turned 60.
As I remember now, my intention was to help you explore the magnificent self in you. Number two, I wanted to share my experiential wisdom. So it is not that I don't know whether it is right or wrong, but my experiential wisdom from some of the coaching programs that I attend and I coach. So the courses I do in Coursera dot org, 21 day meditation challenges that I actually do mostly now, I think I have now linked I'm leaning towards the top last 20 meditation challenges on various topics that I participate and these 20 meditation challenges require you to one participate in the meditation itself.
Okay, second, there are about four questions each day that you have to answer, which requires you to go inward, to go inward and really mastermind with yourself and answer those questions. And it's just like a goal mind for you when you answer those questions and see for yourself how you're evolving with your own self, how you're evolving in a relationship, how you're evolving in your environment with your environment and all those things. Okay, so the second point, once again, I'm going to say it again, I wanted to share my experiential wisdom from coaching programs that I attend courses that I do in Coursera, 20 meditation challenges that I participated. The third point is I wanted to make sure to do my best, my best to acknowledge your insights and inputs in some of my episodes.
Okay, number four, I felt more authentic if I set short-term goals like seven day or 11 maximum 20 minutes challenge to myself to keep the podcast episodes good. Number five, when I was not organically driven to do an episode for a long time, it meant that I was being present, even with me, the keyword is being present, keywords being present to some other activity or event, both happy and sad. To give an example of the happy events, it's my vacation time in Florida meeting my brother's family, entertaining my brother's family, after a very long time, especially during this pandemic post pandemic, whatever for USA. As for the sad one, I was present to death of my one of my good friends and also a relative.
So when I was present to these, then I don't think I was organically driven to record the episodes. But the beauty is, again, the divine intervention is the nudges from these beautiful listeners who are there for me from far behind, right? Unseen, I don't get to see them. But then they say, what happened?
You haven't started your podcast, what's going on? Beautiful. So here is my sedation for you before I leave you for the day. Set a goal for you to do something that you are very passionate or you're truly inspired to do.
You say that, you know what I want to do? I want that type of thing. You become the architect, you become the architect of your own project. Okay.
You allow surprises like both sad and happy events or experiences to chime in, to just chime in. In the entire process, regardless of your gender, bring your divine feminine energy of loving yourself unconditionally. Whether you're a man or a woman, I don't care. I'm asking you to bring your divine feminine energy of loving yourself unconditionally.
Being a supportive and compassionate friend, mom, whatever, whatever, in your, in your imagination, if you find the friend is compassionate or if you find mother is compassionate or if you find father is compassionate because each individual can see when, when you use the word compassion, each individual can visualize some person as a compassionate person. So again, I let me repeat. So regardless of your gender, bring your divine feminine energy of loving yourself unconditionally. Being a supportive and compassionate friend or mother or father of yourself to process the lunar emotional energy.
When you do that, when you do that, watch how regardless of your gender, your divine, I would use the word divine. I know many times I don't, people don't use the word, people are maybe the books I read or something. I don't see them using divine masculine. I would use the word divine masculine because that's masculine too.
So when you do that, watch how regardless of your gender, your divine masculine solar energy shines light on you to help you get that perfect idea to structure for your, you know, to structure the action steps for your goal, which you set to begin with, to give you clear, yes or no decisions to do that specific activity and achieve your goal. Be bold to become an avid observer of your own way of being, your own way of being just observe your own way of being by connecting with your masculine and feminine energy, regardless of your gender. Okay. Now it's your turn to listen to this episode a couple of times and give yourself permission to be open minded and let me know your comments and insights until my next episode until my next tech episode, I'm committed to help you explore the magnificent self in you.
By the way, before I end, I think one of my organic driven organic driver for doing episode is to come to the mirror in my mirror and do this episode. That's the reason why unlike many of the coaches, I don't think I can go anywhere else and then do my episode. So that's another observation by Lalita on Lalita on the evolving Lalita. Okay.
Now you have a fantastic day. Once again, my prayers go to all prayers and good wishes and tarsco for global well-being, global peace and global prosperity. Thank you so much. Have a fantastic day.
Bye bye.