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EPISODE · Mar 21, 2026 · 20 MIN

Do You Really Want What You Say You Want? (Or do you just like the idea of it?)

from Murmuration · host Sarah Matlock and Debbie Beharrell

This episode is about the gap between what we say we want… and what we actually move towards.Because wanting something isn’t just liking the idea of it.It also means being willing to feel what comes with creating it - fear, uncertainty, being seen, not knowing what you’re doing.We explore why that gap exists, why it’s not a failure or a lack of discipline, and what’s really happening when part of you moves towards something… and another part holds you back.And we leave you with a simple question:Do you really want it... or do you like the idea of it?

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