Do you swallow?

We follow the oral sex question with a deep dive into swallowing ejaculate (or *not*.) We hear a wide variety of yes/no answers, but also yes/no conditions. Then Leah share her personal experience with blowjobs and the journey she took to make sure it was as good for her as it was for him. Little boys get just as much bad messaging as little girls do. Learning how to openly and safely communicate with your sexual partner can re-educate and heal you both. A chorus of women answer the question "Do you swallow?" Leah answers. She opens by sharing that in the pre-internet days, Cosmo was her primary source of information. The "If you love him, you swallow" rule and its fallout. Leah gives her first blowjob, and it's disastrous for her afterwards. A new approach learned at a STARS class blows her mind. Leah and her partner try something new with blowjobs and it's a win-win. Leah shares a listener email that offers an unusual perspective—a man's response to the podcast. Podcast recommendation: When Women Speak by Sara Sanderson - https://whenwomenspeak.buzzsprout.com/1104935 The Emma Case interview - https://whenwomenspeak.buzzsprout.com/1104935/4128944-am-i-welcome-here-why-we-must-do-more-than-simply-say-everyone-is-welcome When Women Speak website - https://www.wwsgn.com/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/whenwomenspeakglobalnetwork/  Resources mentioned: The STARS episode - https://link.chtbl.com/STARS   Update:  Since this episode was released, the podcast has concluded. Here's how you can find me now: Book a FREE no-pressure intro consultation Keep up to date and get your FREE Three-Minute Game All my classes and downloads are at my store Any audio extras for this episode on the Good Girls Talk About Sex website Here's everything I'm up to today I no longer use Patreon — you can now support my work on Substack   EPISODE CREDITS: Host / Producer – Leah Carey (email) Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby Administrative Support - Lara O'Connor, Maria Franco Transcript creation – Jan Acielo Music – Nazar Rybak