Don't Ask For What You Want

How many of us are told ‘ ask and you won’t get’ These phrases of our childhood are part of our programming as adults unless we consciously change them. Julie poses the question how do others know what we want if we don’t tell them? This is the opposite to the commonly used phrase ‘ask and you won’t get’ often heard in childhood. Listen in and find out why you need to tell others what you want if you want to achieve your goals. KEY TAKEAWAYS How we are raised and brought up imprints in our brains and unconscious programs. As the adult, if we are without conscious thought or re-jigging we operate from the programs of our childhood. In all aspects of our lives, we have to ask for what we want, it’s important to be able to do this. If we are told as children not to ask because we won’t receive it, how do we learn the strategies, the how-to for when we are older? When we have a vision, goals, long term and short-term planning unless we are really clear that we can ask for that thing we cannot move forward. Unless you can ask for and truly believe you deserve something it will never happen. How were you spoken to as a child? what phrases run through your head? What we want to achieve and what we need to achieve are sometimes completely different things. Go out and do something that will bring you closer to where you want to be BEST MOMENTS ‘If there is a gap something will fill it if you don’t have a plan’ ‘We have to ask others for what we want. If we don’t ask them how will they know what we want?’ ‘How many of us are told ‘ ask and you won’t get’ ‘Those phrases run through us and direct our actions’ VALUABLE RESOURCES The Life-Changing Magic of Setting Goals book by Julie Hogbin The Authorities - Julie Hogbin: Powerful Wisdom from Leaders in the field book by Julie Hogbin, Raymond Aaron, Marci Shimoff, Dr John Gray The Disruptive Entrepreneur Podcast ABOUT THE HOST Julie Hogbin I started my career within the accountancy profession, moving on into auditing, then Learning & Development where I have spent over 30 years. In 2011 I threw everything up in the air and became a property investor via forex, trading and learning how to build websites & internet market whilst walking on fire 😊 I have worked with over 20,000 Leaders at every level of Management and Leadership for over 30+ years. In the latter years working with CEOs, SMTs, boards of trustees & Entrepreneurs. I have worked with the public, the private and the entrepreneurial sectors of the market. The Leadership messages are the same across the sectors – the application may be different but all are Business’ where Conscious and Principled Leadership reaps rewards for all parties concerned. I work with the human element of Business and my passion is enabling others to be the best they can be through providing them with the information they need to be more effective than they currently are. Unleashing potential and providing knowledge enabling the best decisions to be made for the Business, the Employee, the Leader (themselves) their families and the greater social economy. I am a Coach, a Mentor (and I know the difference) Trainer, Author, property investor and public speaker I love to travel, sunshine, smiley people, intelligent conversation, laughter, learning, networking, supporting others, property as a business, investigating ‘stuff’ problem solving, asking questions that make people think, creating aha moments, gardening and flowers and being outside. CONTACT METHOD Julie Hogbin Facebook Conscious Leadership Facebook Julie Hogbin LinkedIn Julie Hogbin Twitter Julie Hogbin Instagram Julie Hogbin Pinterest Conscious Leadership YouTube