Don’t Be A D*&K

In this episode of Unfiltered Vet Discussions, the panel dives into the very real impact of “little” behaviors—microaggressions, gossip, and passive-aggressive comments—on veterinary teams and clinic culture. They walk through a real-world situation where venting about coworkers spiraled into a bad mood and a toxic atmosphere, and unpack why so many people are unaware that they’re “being a dick” in the first place. The conversation explores how negativity becomes a default connection style, from childhood dynamics to media messaging, and why high-functioning practices often fixate on “ant hills” once the big fires are out. The panel shares practical tools like gratitude journaling, shout-outs, and “three good things” exercises to retrain our brains toward positivity, strengthen psychological safety, and build healthier ways to connect. They wrap with a simple challenge for everyone in vet med: practice awareness, choose kindness, and remember—it’s never too late to stop being a dick.