Don't expect a 10 in week 1

It’s an easy trap to fall into, thinking we should be brilliant at everything the minute we try it, and then berating ourselves when we aren’t.  What’s happening for us when we set ourselves up in this way?  What stories are we telling ourselves about where we think we should be?In this episode I explore the psychodynamics behind the ‘comparisonitis’ and why we can create false narratives around our growth and achievements. We’ll take a trip through reality television shows and Anne Widdecombe will be dancing the light fantastic.  What’s not to enjoy?Here are the highlights of this episode:(3.38) What imposter syndrome really means(5.45) Conscious, preconscious and unconscious(8.34) Projection and projective identification(9.59) False expectations and idealsConnect with Julia:WebsiteLinkedInInstagramABOUT THE PODCASTThe Dynamics of Everyday Life explores the psychological patterns shaping how we think, work and relate to others; bringing psychodynamic thinking into coaching, leadership and everyday life.If you're a coach interested in learning more about psychodynamic approaches to coaching, you can explore Julia's training programmes on her website.FOLLOW THE PODCASTIf you're enjoying The Dynamics of Everyday Life, follow the podcast on your listening app so you don't miss future episodes.