Don't Let Up | Validation, Quitting, and God’s Will | Ep 28 | 2 Grown Men Having A Conversation

2 Grown Men Talk Validation, Quitting, and God’s Will (Plus Fatherhood Lessons)Hosts Joe T and D Johns open the episode reflecting on feeling optimistic while also navigating recent slumps and the challenges of staying consistent with their platform. They discuss D Johns' daughter joining a cheer clinic and his concerns about how to encourage her if she faces disappointment, which leads into a deeper conversation about quitting, fear, and preparing the right “keep going” speech as a father. The two explore the habit of doing the “easy thing,” letting themselves off the hook, and how validation from others can stop growth—using examples like drawing, basketball, and creating content when guests cancel. They talk about comparing work in a healthy way as a benchmark, wrestling with pride, and the drive to prove to themselves they can do difficult things, while also reflecting on backgrounds where bigger possibilities didn’t feel accessible. The conversation shifts to instilling belief in children that they can do anything, balancing ambition with humility, and not settling for “good enough.” They also wrestle with interpreting God’s will, avoiding a formulaic faith, and separating identity from results while still being honest about desires—such as building a platform that sustains family, creating financial security, and owning property like a family compound. They emphasize patience, character change, using practical tools and resources, learning to ask for help, and not undervaluing routine skills. The episode closes with a charge referencing 2 Timothy 1:6, encouraging listeners to study the original meaning of “power,” “love,” “sound mind,” and “fear,” and ends with a reflective spoken piece on humility, accountability, pride, and consequences.00:00 Welcome Back: Windy City Vibes & Checking In00:18 Optimism After a Slump: Building Together & Turning a Leaf00:54 Dad Talk: Daughter’s Cheer Clinic, Tryouts & Handling Disappointment02:43 Filling the Gaps: When Guests Cancel and You Default to the “Easy Thing”06:12 Validation vs Full Potential: The ‘Good Enough’ Trap08:08 Healthy Comparison: Benchmarks, Pride, and Avoiding the Results Game12:08 Proving You Can: Access, Environment, and Breaking Old Limits14:57 Instilling Belief in Your Kids: Culture at Home & Carrying Family Pressure18:35 Bittersweet Success: Perfectionism, Settling, and Wrestling With ‘More’22:00 Faith Check: Is It Really God’s Will?22:26 Trust, Character & Not Treating the Bible Like a Formula24:27 Stop Boxing God In: Desires, Worth & Disassociating From Results27:12 Naming the Desire: Providing for Family, Property & Legacy28:51 Patience, Timing & Making Sure It’s God’s Signature33:47 Missing Tools: Business Wisdom, Asking for Help & Leaving the Wilderness39:51 Process Over Highlight Reel: Valuing Routine, Mastery & Charging for Results43:27 No More Excuses + Final Charge: Power, Love & a Sound Mind (2 Tim 1:6–7)45:13 Closing Spoken-Word Reflection: Humility, Accountability & Pride#MensMentalHealth #VulnerableConversation #ChristianMen #RelationshipAdvice #OvercomingAddictionFollow Joe T: https://instagram.com/bakeriii Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®