Doug Friedman - Fear the Lord Your God or Love the Lord Your God

In his first letter to believers scattered across the area today we call northern Turkey, Peter clearly commands them to “conduct yourselves in FEAR during the time of your stay on earth.” But many times in the bible God tells us to “be holy, for I am holy.” Does God really want us to live in constant fear about what He will do to us if we fail to live up to His holy standards?