Dr Alex George & Psychotherapist Anna Mathur: How to Rewire Your Brain for Happiness

Is "toxic positivity" ruining your mental health? In this episode, we speak to former UK government Youth Mental Health Ambassador, Dr. Alex George, and psychotherapist and author Anna Mathur to dismantle the pressure to be happy all the time and explore the science of finding joy in the small things.We discuss the difference between dopamine hits and true happiness, why we wear "masks" to hide depression, and the biology behind stress and joy. Plus, Dr. Alex and Anna share actionable tools - like Alex’s brilliantly simple “2 minute rule” and cognitive reframing techniques - to help you build mental fitness, manage ADHD, and combat loneliness.More from Well Enough: Follow Well Enough on Instagram hereFollow Emilie on Instagram here Subscribe to the Well Enough newsletter hereTimecodes00:00 The Role of Negative Emotions00:51 Is Happiness Just Hormones?01:29 Why Stress Blocks Joy (Fight or Flight)02:14 Cortisol vs Serotonin02:52 Dopamine Hits vs True Joy03:41 The Dangers of Toxic Positivity04:08 Depression and Wearing the "Mask"05:27 Dr. Alex on ADHD & Vulnerability06:55 Antidepressants and Breaking Stigma08:05 The Loneliness of Hiding Feelings09:28 Men's Mental Health & Fear of Abandonment11:42 Mental Fitness vs. Mental Illness13:43 Childhood Trauma & Suppressing Emotions16:47 Neuroplasticity: Can We Rewire Our Brains?18:32 Motivation vs. Discipline19:55 Overcoming Self-Sabotage22:26 Letting Go of Perfectionism24:17 Combatting the Loneliness Epidemic27:32 Decision Fatigue & Social Media Burnout28:44 The Problem with Gratitude (And How to Fix It)33:14 The 2-Minute Rule (ADHD Hack)34:55 How to Build Healthy Habits (The Snowball Effect)36:26 Reframing: "I Have To" vs. "I Get To"39:20 Wellness Non-Negotiables: Rest & NatureMore from today’s guests:Dr Alex’s new book ‘Happy Habits’ | https://www.amazon.co.uk/Happy-Habits-Steps-Build-Life/dp/0241771463Anna’s new book ‘The Good Decision Diary’ | https://www.amazon.co.uk/Good-Decision-Diary-making-decisions/dp/0241707226 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Is "toxic positivity" ruining your mental health? In this episode, we speak to former UK government Youth Mental Health Ambassador, Dr. Alex George, and psychotherapist and author Anna Mathur to dismantle the pressure to be happy all the time and explore the science of finding joy in the small things.We discuss the difference between dopamine hits and true happiness, why we wear "masks" to hide depression, and the biology behind stress and joy. Plus, Dr. Alex and Anna share actionable tools - like Alex’s brilliantly simple “2 minute rule” and cognitive reframing techniques - to help you build mental fitness, manage ADHD, and combat loneliness.More from Well Enough: Follow Well Enough on Instagram hereFollow Emilie on Instagram here Subscribe to the Well Enough newsletter hereTimecodes00:00 The Role of Negative Emotions00:51 Is Happiness Just Hormones?01:29 Why Stress Blocks Joy (Fight or Flight)02:14 Cortisol vs Serotonin02:52 Dopamine Hits vs True Joy03:41 The Dangers of Toxic Positivity04:08 Depression and Wearing the "Mask"05:27 Dr. Alex on ADHD & Vulnerability06:55 Antidepressants and Breaking Stigma08:05 The Loneliness of Hiding Feelings09:28 Men's Mental Health & Fear of Abandonment11:42 Mental Fitness vs. Mental Illness13:43 Childhood Trauma & Suppressing Emotions16:47 Neuroplasticity: Can We Rewire Our Brains?18:32 Motivation vs. Discipline19:55 Overcoming Self-Sabotage22:26 Letting Go of Perfectionism24:17 Combatting the Loneliness Epidemic27:32 Decision Fatigue & Social Media Burnout28:44 The Problem with Gratitude (And How to Fix It)33:14 The 2-Minute Rule (ADHD Hack)34:55 How to Build Healthy Habits (The Snowball Effect)36:26 Reframing: "I Have To" vs. "I Get To"39:20 Wellness Non-Negotiables: Rest & NatureMore from today’s guests:Dr Alex’s new book ‘Happy Habits’ | https://www.amazon.co.uk/Happy-Habits-Steps-Build-Life/dp/0241771463Anna’s new book ‘The Good Decision Diary’ | https://www.amazon.co.uk/Good-Decision-Diary-making-decisions/dp/0241707226 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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