Dr. Debby Herbenick – Rough Sex, How to have the “Talk with your Kids”, & Understanding the Risks

Parents, have you heard about teens engaging in rough sex practices like choking? Are you concerned about the potential long-term effects on their well-being?In this episode, I talk with Dr. Debby Herbenick, a Provost Professor. We dive headfirst into the complex dynamics of this controversial topic. From the reasons people find it compelling to the deeply important aspect of consent, we've got it all covered.Today's discussion doesn't just skim the surface. Dr. Herbenick shares her extensive research on the diversity of reasons behind why individuals engage in choking, be it an interest in the kink and BDSM communities or influences from mainstream culture. But here's the catch—consent is paramount, and many people skip this crucial step. We'll explore the risks, the lack of clear communication, and how this can lead to potential misunderstandings and dangers.As always, education is empowerment. We stress the importance of educating patients and the general public about the risks and necessity of consent in sexual practices.Highlights:Diversity of Reasons: Dr. Debby Herbenick dives deep into the various reasons people engage in choking during sex, from kink and BDSM interests to mainstream cultural influences.Consent is Critical: Discover the alarming gaps in discussions about consent, the intensity, type, and duration of choking, and the risks these pose.Impact of Technology: Examine how technology and social media have reshaped the way we form relationships and communicate, affecting both consent and reactions.Educational Outreach: I underscore the significance of parenting and professional guidance in addressing sexual health topics with tweens and teens.Research Insights: Learn about recent findings showing the potential cumulative impacts of choking during sex on brain function and health.Parental Guidance: Tips for parents on communicating effectively with their children about the legal and ethical implications of sharing nude images.Ready to dive deeper into these crucial topics? Hit subscribe and follow our podcast for more insights and expert discussions. Let's stay smart and informed about our sexual health together!Remember, this podcast exists to educate and empower you to advocate for your own sexual health. Please like, share, and give us a 5-star review on Apple!We encourage you to stay informed and advocate for your sexual well-being. You can always learn more by visiting our website and following us on social media.Guest Bio:Dr. Debby Herbenick is a Provost Professor at the Indiana University School of Public Health-Bloomington, Director of the Center for Sexual Health Promotion, and an AASECT-certified sexuality educator. Her new book is “Yes Your Kid: What Parents Need to Know About Today’s Teens and Sex.” Dr. Herbenick’s research focuses on women’s sexual health, US population-representative research, as well as trends in sexual attitudes and behaviors. She has published more than 200 peer-reviewed scientific articles related to sexual and reproductive health and serves as Principal Investigator of the award-winning National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, which has been ongoing since 2009. Dr. Herbenick’s research, books, and expertise have been featured in the New York Times, Washington Post, Vogue, Tyra Banks Show, Discovery Health, and in thousands of others media.Connect with Dr.Debby Herbenick:Website Center for Sexual Health Promotion InstagramBookGet in Touch with Dr. Rahman:PracticeInstagramYoutube