Dreams Are Built on Sacrifices - with Gary O'Neil

Straight from the new podcast studio at Woodbury House, Steven talks to special guest Gary O’Neil, former professional footballer, who played for the likes of Portsmouth, West Ham and Middlesborough, and who now acts as the Under-23’s assistant coach for Liverpool.   Gary talks about the importance of resilience, why we must always recognise sacrifice, and the life lessons that have not just steered him towards success, but which are now steering a new generation of players.   KEY TAKEAWAYS   Dreams are built on sacrifices. We must always remember that things others have to give up, so that we can fulfil our potential and find our place in the world. Strong relationships are the key to success. We all need support, emotional or otherwise, in order to be the best that we can be. Social media and its effects can be positive, but the negative effects can sometimes be crushing. It is important to keep it at arms-length until resilience is developed. A side of a player’s education that is often overlooked is the education of money management. Instilling a financial ethic into not just players, but anyone from a young age, is a vital component in their upbringing. The life of a player comes in waves. We reach a point where the opportunities come to us, but at a certain point, we must recognise the need to seek them ourselves.   BEST MOMENTS   ’To have solid relationships around you is so important’ ‘I was never really starstruck by footballers’ ’There are pitfalls to being successful’ ‘I keep learning, and keep developing myself, so that I can improve other people'   VALUABLE RESOURCES   The Steven Sulley Study   Gary O’Neil Twitter - https://twitter.com/gazoneil?lang=en   ABOUT THE HOST   The Steven Sulley Study is my take on success. My view is you should have multiple focuses to be a well-rounded individual. Success shouldn't be just one thing like money, for example, it should also consist of a healthy fit lifestyle and thriving relationships.   As a person who has made a success in life and also made huge cock-ups I feel I can offer suggestions and tips on how to become successful or at least start your pursuit. My 'Study' has taken resources from reading and education plus being around, my perception, of successful people and I, know a lot of successful people from all walks of life.   My 'Study' coming from my experiences in business, investing, sales (my core background), training, boxing and education has enabled me to become well rounded and successful and I will help you in these key areas too.   CONTACT METHOD   Instagram This show was brought to you by Progressive Media