DWC 136: Conquer the Fear of Judgment and Own the Stage with Colleen Schell

Are you holding back your true story because you are terrified of failing or being judged on stage? In this episode of Deepen with Christina, host Christina Weber sits down with world-renowned speaker coach Colleen Schell to explore how stepping onto the stage is the ultimate act of self-love. Together, they break down how to conquer performance anxiety, reframe the fear of losing your train of thought, and navigate the necessary tension that precedes true personal transformation. This episode is a must-listen for heart-centered leaders, coaches, and creators who feel a calling to speak but find themselves paralyzed by perfectionism. Tune in to discover why the world doesn't need your perfection—it craves your authentic connection. Main Topics Covered The Intersection of Public Speaking and Self-Love — How taking creative risks and embracing the "wonky" phases of growth allows you to see yourself through new eyes and build genuine self-trust. The Ego Trap of Shyness and Hoarding Wisdom — A powerful reframing of stage fright as a form of egoism, and the responsibility of sharing your transformational gifts instead of keeping them hidden. Overcoming the Fear of Rupture on Stage — Actionable mindsets for navigating moments when you lose your train of thought or make a mistake in front of a live audience. Sitting in the Tension of Transformation — Why discomfort, chaos, and emotional breakthroughs are necessary leadership skills required to reach your next level. The Shift from External Success to Deep Community Connection — Moving away from materialistic metrics of a successful life and embracing the enlivening power of vulnerable, real-life relationships. The Future of Human Storytelling in an AI-Driven Era — Why authentic personal stories and community hosting will become the ultimate currency as automated technology becomes hyper-competitive. Practical Storytelling Hacks for Beginners — The undeniable power of comedy improv and how to use open mics as a safe training ground to find your voice. Key Takeaways Perfectionism is a Barrier to Connection — Audiences will easily forgive mistakes, but they will not forgive being bored; they want to see your humanity, not a flawless execution. Ego Works Both Ways — Believing you are "too small" or too shy to share your message is just as self-absorbed as boasting; if divinity placed a fire in your heart to speak, it is your duty to tend it. You are Safe in the Rupture — When emotional or cognitive breakdowns happen, your primary job is to act as the steward of your own nervous system, utilizing tools like the butterfly tap to regulate yourself. If You Do What is Hard, Life Becomes Easy — Avoiding the uncomfortable path of public speaking keeps your life small, but leaning into the practice creates an aligned, rich destiny where unexpected opportunities effortlessly unlock. Connect with the Guest Main Website: FABx 7-Figure Visionary Speaker Weekend Accelerator: Register Here Instagram: @colleenschell Connect with the Host WeDeepen Website: wedeepen.com Christina Weber Website: christinalweber.com Instagram: @wedeepen & @christinaweber LinkedIn: Christina Weber Call to Action If this conversation inspired you to step out of the audience and onto the stage of your own life, please follow the podcast, leave a like, and share this episode with a friend or fellow leader who needs to hear this message today!