E:105: I Built My Marriage Wrong From the Start. God Showed Me Why.

I had the intact home. The husband. Five kids. On paper, nothing was wrong. Everyone on the outside thought we had the ideal home. This week, I'm telling you what was actually happening underneath it — and about a woman in Scripture whose story I read years before my own marriage and never understood until it was already too late to have it going in. In this episode, we go back to Genesis 24 — the marriage the Bible describes in more detail than almost any other — and I show you exactly who Rebekah was, what the servant was actually testing for at the well, and why her answer to her family's question ("will you go?") mattered as much as anything else in the story. Then I connect it to my own foundation: growing up in a home shaped by my parents' divorce, the vow I made to give my own kids something different, and how I ended up building the exact thing I swore I'd never repeat — not because I didn't love my family, but because I didn't yet have the character Rebekah already had, long before anyone was testing her for it. If you're a divorced Christian woman rebuilding a home, a faith, or an identity from the ground up — this episode is for you. 📖 Scriptures referenced: Genesis 24:2–9, 12–14, 57–58 | Genesis 18:19 | Genesis 12:1–9 | Proverbs 30:21–23 | James 1:27 📅 Apply for coaching (Rooted Clarity Call) 🌱 Start with the free 7-day devotional: ROOTS 💛 Join The Selah Community  Ready to build a foundation like Rebekah's? The Rooted Clarity Call is how you apply for Selah Healing coaching: www.coachkatieanne.com/call divorced Christian women, Genesis 24, Rebekah Bible study, Isaac and Rebekah, God's design for marriage, Proverbs 30, James 1:27, Christian marriage foundation, biblical marriage, faith after divorce, Christian women over 40, bride of Christ, character before marriage, divorce recovery coaching, unloved woman Proverbs #ChristianDivorceRecovery #Genesis24 #Rebekah #BiblicalMarriage #FaithAfterDivorce #ChristianWomen #BeyondBelievingPodcast #ProverbsWisdom #ChristianHealing #BrideOfChrist