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EPISODE · Apr 15, 2026 · 13 MIN

E:87: After My Divorce, God Showed Me I Still Had a Choice

from Beyond Believing: Helping Christian Women Heal Post Divorce · host beyondbelieving

Ready to take your power back? Apply for coaching → coachkatieanne.com/call   After my divorce, I thought I was trusting God. What I didn’t see is that I was also handing my power to my ex every single day — delaying decisions, waiting on his cooperation, organizing my life around his next move. I didn’t choose that consciously. It was just running in the background.   In this episode I walk through the seven-word question God asked me that shut the autopilot off. And why 1 John 4:4 is not a motivational poster — it is a Tuesday-afternoon instruction for every decision you are making right now.   If you are a divorced Christian woman who is exhausted by a life still organized around someone who already left it — this episode is for you.   Scripture Anchor: 1 John 4:4  ·  Apply for coaching: coachkatieanne.com/call If this helped you, subscribe and leave a review. It helps more women find this work.   CHAPTER MARKERS 0:00 — The autopilot I didn’t know was running 0:38 — Welcome 1:15 — What giving power away looks like for the Chaser 2:30 — What it looks like for the Cutoff 3:30 — The woman in eight years of litigation 6:00 — What she could not see — and what I recognized 6:30 — The seven-word question 9:00 — 1 John 4:4 — not motivation, instruction 11:30 — What taking your power back actually looks like 13:30 — You are not powerless 15:00 — Apply for coaching   giving power away after divorce | waiting on your ex | co-parenting power dynamics | divorced Christian women healing | 1 John 4:4 | power and control after divorce | God gives strength after divorce | Christian podcast divorced women | taking your life back after divorce | beyond believing podcast | Christian life coach | decision making after divorce | healing after divorce Christian | co-parenting difficult ex | identity after divorce | stop waiting on your ex | post divorce healing Christian | coach Katie Anne #DivorceHealing #TakingYourPowerBack #ChristianWomen #BeyondBelieving #CoParenting #FaithAfterDivorce #HealingAfterDivorce #ChristianPodcast #DivorceRecovery #1John4 #GodIsGreater #PostDivorce #DivorcedChristianWomen #StopWaiting #CoachKatieAnne

Ready to take your power back? Apply for coaching → coachkatieanne.com/call   After my divorce, I thought I was trusting God. What I didn’t see is that I was also handing my power to my ex every single day — delaying decisions, waiting on his cooperation, organizing my life around his next move. I didn’t choose that consciously. It was just running in the background.   In this episode I walk through the seven-word question God asked me that shut the autopilot off. And why 1 John 4:4 is not a motivational poster — it is a Tuesday-afternoon instruction for every decision you are making right now.   If you are a divorced Christian woman who is exhausted by a life still organized around someone who already left it — this episode is for you.   Scripture Anchor: 1 John 4:4  ·  Apply for coaching: coachkatieanne.com/call If this helped you, subscribe and leave a review. It helps more women find this work.   CHAPTER MARKERS 0:00 — The autopilot I didn’t know was running 0:38 — Welcome 1:15 — What giving power away looks like for the Chaser 2:30 — What it looks like for the Cutoff 3:30 — The woman in eight years of litigation 6:00 — What she could not see — and what I recognized 6:30 — The seven-word question 9:00 — 1 John 4:4 — not motivation, instruction 11:30 — What taking your power back actually looks like 13:30 — You are not powerless 15:00 — Apply for coaching   giving power away after divorce | waiting on your ex | co-parenting power dynamics | divorced Christian women healing | 1 John 4:4 | power and control after divorce | God gives strength after divorce | Christian podcast divorced women | taking your life back after divorce | beyond believing podcast | Christian life coach | decision making after divorce | healing after divorce Christian | co-parenting difficult ex | identity after divorce | stop waiting on your ex | post divorce healing Christian | coach Katie Anne #DivorceHealing #TakingYourPowerBack #ChristianWomen #BeyondBelieving #CoParenting #FaithAfterDivorce #HealingAfterDivorce #ChristianPodcast #DivorceRecovery #1John4 #GodIsGreater #PostDivorce #DivorcedChristianWomen #StopWaiting #CoachKatieAnne

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