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Oct 11, 2025 14 min

E05: Won't Or Can't? Rethinking Student Behavior

from Sped Decoded Hosted by Lenesha

When a child acts out, shuts down, or seems to “refuse” to follow directions — is it really defiance, or is it a skill gap? In this episode of Sped Decoded, we’re breaking down one of the most misunderstood areas in education: the difference between won’t and can’t. Join Lenesha aka Neesh as she unpacks how to tell whether a student’s behavior is a choice or a communication of need. You’ll learn practical ways to recognize disability-related behaviors, shift your mindset, and respond with both compassion and strategy — not punishment. 💡 Key Takeaways: How to tell if it’s behavior or a skill gap Why the “why” behind behavior matters Real examples from classrooms and families Tools to teach, not just discipline 🧡 Whether you’re a parent, teacher, or advocate, this conversation will help you see behavior in a new light — and build stronger, more supportive connections with your students. #SpedDecoded #IEPtips #SpecialEducation #BehaviorSupport

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