E08 | 【众生样本】资源给了他,责任给了我 episode artwork

EPISODE · May 31, 2026 · 1H 10M

E08 | 【众生样本】资源给了他,责任给了我

from 朵来咪

【本期内容】如果一个人从小被爱,却最终发现自己从未被真正选择过,会发生什么?本期节目,我们邀请到了英子。在她的成长经历里,父亲从未打骂过她,对哥哥却格外严厉。很长一段时间里,她都以为自己是家里最受偏爱的孩子。直到成年后,她才慢慢发现:情感上的偏爱,未必等于资源上的倾斜;被认为“懂事”,有时反而意味着要承担更多责任。当家庭把最好的资源给了儿子,却把未来的责任交给女儿;当一个人不断被要求理解、体谅、付出,她该如何面对那份迟来的失衡感?这一期,我们想聊聊原生家庭里的隐形规则,也聊聊那些被“懂事”绑架的人,如何重新建立属于自己的边界。【本期嘉宾】英子【本期聊点】• 偏爱的幻觉:为什么有些女孩从小被宠爱,却在成年后发现自己从未真正拥有选择权?• 资源与责任:当家庭把资源向一个人倾斜,却期待另一个人承担责任时,不公平感从何而来?• 长女困境:“你懂事一点”背后,究竟隐...去小宇宙查看完整单集简介在小宇宙查看该单集文稿

Episode metadata supplied by the publisher feed · Published May 31, 2026

Embed this episode

Ready to play

E08 | 【众生样本】资源给了他,责任给了我

0:00 1:10:23

No transcript for this episode yet

We transcribe on demand. Request one and we'll notify you when it's ready — usually under 10 minutes.

No similar episodes found.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long is this episode of 朵来咪?

This episode is 1 hour and 10 minutes long.

When was this 朵来咪 episode published?

This episode was published on May 31, 2026.

Can I download this 朵来咪 episode?

Yes. Use the download control on the episode player to save the publisher-provided media file.
URL copied to clipboard!