E10 "None Shall Pass!" - Boundaries vs. Expectations

Did you know that you are the only person who can cross a boundary you have established?  There is a lot of confusion around what it means to set a boundary. Can you cross my boundary? Nope. Is my boundary for you? Nope. Can you and I have an agreement (with consequences if broken)? Yep. Are boundaries and expectations the same thing? Nope. We're investigating another Instagram Reel again this week from Nick Pollard (@thepeopledispleaser) titled "Setting Boundaries with Other People is Impossible."   Listen in as we unpack these concepts:   ✅ Why setting boundaries with other people is impossible ✅ What are boundaries and what aren't they?  ✅ A formula from Nick Pollard's free PDF: When people {INSERT ACTION}, I feel {INSERT FEELING}, so when that happens, I will choose to {INSERT ACTION YOU WILL TAKE} ✅ How having a Christian worldview dictates universal boundaries ✅ How to handle convictions (aka personal boundaries) We have mentored a number of couples and friends in relationship to boundaries. There are a lot of misconceptions about it, so in order to create and maintain healthy relationships, we need to dig in and get clear on this concept.  We've made a great start on today's episode! What would you like to hear us talk about next? Find and connect with us in more places and ways: Website: https://www.soulanchoring.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@soulanchoring Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/soulanchoring Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SoulAnchoring Twitter: https://twitter.com/SoulAnchoring  Email: [email protected]   Listen Now:  ​​Apple Podcasts Spotify Website If you like what you hear from us, would you be so kind as to Follow Us / Subscribe, Give us a 5-Star Rating, Write a Glowing Review, and Pray for Us? You can also make suggestions of topics you'd like to hear us discuss. Thanks!!  💙 blessings, cosmo + suzi