E137: Advocating for Your Future Self- Mentoring Part 2

In this episode, we welcome special guest Kisha Wallace-Brown from Procore Technologies, to discuss mentoring relationships, personal growth, and building a circle of influence. Below are the key points and notes from the conversation: Introduction to Mentoring Relationships The importance of recognizing the potential in others and encouraging their growth Characteristics of a Good Mentor Someone who sees your potential and "holds up a mirror" to your strengths Provides guidance, encouragement, and accountability Asks challenging questions and pushes you to grow Key Advice for Personal and Professional Growth "Stand tall" - Take up space, don't shrink yourself to accommodate others Recognize your unique value and don't try to be accessible to everyone Challenge imposter syndrome and step into your professional identity Building Enduring Connections Time and consistency are crucial for developing trust Create a psychologically safe space in relationships Embrace core values: openness, ownership, and optimism Tips for Finding or Becoming a Mentor For mentees: Be clear about your intentions and expectations For mentors: Ensure you have the bandwidth and clarify the level of engagement Establish mutual respect and trust Be prepared to give and receive critical feedback respectfully The Circle of Influence Concept Building a personal board of directors to support professional growth Selecting individuals who champion your success and help uncover your brilliance