E186 Who Will Bury Me If I Have No Family?

This is an important question for Solo Agers, or for anyone without family nearby. Friends, Neighbors, Community Pros Your close friends, neighbors, etc. probably know your wishes best. And they also most want to honor you, have a nice remembrance. Cons It’s a big ask, even for close friends. Tending to final remains, and organizing a funeral service is a big and emotional job. Your friends may prefer to attend your funeral, not run it. Distant Family Pros Blood is thicker than water, right? You may feel than any relative, even estranged, is most appropriate. Cons Just like with close friends, it’s a big ask. And distant relatives won’t know much about you or your final wishes. Hired Professional Pros Want something done as you like? What better way then to hire someone? With friends and family, it’s either an honor or an obligation. Hire a pro, and it’s their job. A professional with a reputation to protect will reliably carry out your final wishes. Cons A professional may not have the same warmth as a friend or family. But remember, someone like a professional executor is just organizing burial and the funeral. Your friends are still in attendance, and free to focus on remembering you. The Public Option: Pauper’s Funeral Pros Well, it’s free. Yes, the state has a burial option of last resort for anyone with no family or no money. Cons It’s in the name: this is a pauper’s funeral. Typically for the homeless, your burial will be carried out by New York’s incarcerated. FREE Copy of “The Solo Ager Estate Plan” Complete this form to receive your complimentary copy of Anthony’s Amazon best-seller, “The Solo Ager Estate Plan”