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EPISODE · Jun 12, 2026 · 58 MIN

E19 Spilling the Tea - In Defence of Gossip

from Murder of Crones · host MofCrones

In this episode, Kori leads the squad as they explore the complex history and social significance of gossip, its evolution from a trusted form of communication to a stigmatized activity, and its potential as a tool for social bonding, protection, and empowerment. Join us as we challenge stereotypes and reclaim gossip as a positive force for community and connection.   Show Notes Takeaways: - History of gossip from the 16th century to today - Gossip's role in women's social networks and safety - The evolution of gossip from a trusted communication to a stigmatized activity - The use of gossip in social learning, trust, and accountability - Historical punishments for women accused of gossiping, including public shaming and   violence - The concept of whisper networks and their role in exposing predators like Harvey Weinstein - The importance of women’s communication for community building and safety - Reclaiming gossip as a pro-social, empowering activity - The influence of media in shaping perceptions of gossip and communication - The significance of women supporting each other through shared stories and experiences Chapters 00:00 Gossip and Its Social Implications 03:45 Introduction and Technical Setup 04:11 Understanding Gossip: Modern Perceptions and Stigma 12:30 The Historical Evolution of Gossip 20:10 Gossip as a Tool for Safety and Connection 21:10 The Silencing of Women: Historical Context 27:36 The Impact of Gossip on Women's Lives 31:28 Witch Trials and the Fear of Female Power 37:57 Gossip as a Tool for Connection and Empowerment 38:48 The Whisper Network: A Protective System 41:18 The Impact of Investigative Journalism 43:24 The Disappointment of Fallen Idols 44:27 Ghislaine Maxwell and Gendered Justice 45:01 The Role of Female Spies in History 46:06 Women Talking: A Cinematic Reflection 50:00 The Power of Women’s Conversations 53:20 Reclaiming Gossip as a Positive Force References: Dunbar, R. I. M. (2004). Gossip in evolutionary perspective. Review of General Psychology, 8(2), 100–110. Federici, S. (2018). Witches, witch-hunting, and women. PM Press. Feinberg, M., Willer, R., & Schultz, M. (2014). Gossip and ostracism promote cooperation in groups. Psychological Science, 25(3), 656–664. Foster, E. K. (2004). Research on gossip: Taxonomy, methods, and future directions. Review of General Psychology, 8(2), 78–99. Kantor, J., & Twohey, M. (2019). She said: Breaking the sexual harassment story that helped ignite a movement. Penguin Press. Robbins, M. L., & Karan, A. (2020). Who gossips and how in everyday life. Social Psychological and Personality Science, 11(3), 397–405. Toews, M. (2018). Women talking: A novel. Bloomsbury Publishing.   Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : [email protected]   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC. 

In this episode, Kori leads the squad as they explore the complex history and social significance of gossip, its evolution from a trusted form of communication to a stigmatized activity, and its potential as a tool for social bonding, protection, and empowerment. Join us as we challenge stereotypes and reclaim gossip as a positive force for community and connection.   Show Notes Takeaways: - History of gossip from the 16th century to today - Gossip's role in women's social networks and safety - The evolution of gossip from a trusted communication to a stigmatized activity - The use of gossip in social learning, trust, and accountability - Historical punishments for women accused of gossiping, including public shaming and   violence - The concept of whisper networks and their role in exposing predators like Harvey Weinstein - The importance of women’s communication for community building and safety - Reclaiming gossip as a pro-social, empowering activity - The influence of media in shaping perceptions of gossip and communication - The significance of women supporting each other through shared stories and experiences Chapters 00:00 Gossip and Its Social Implications 03:45 Introduction and Technical Setup 04:11 Understanding Gossip: Modern Perceptions and Stigma 12:30 The Historical Evolution of Gossip 20:10 Gossip as a Tool for Safety and Connection 21:10 The Silencing of Women: Historical Context 27:36 The Impact of Gossip on Women's Lives 31:28 Witch Trials and the Fear of Female Power 37:57 Gossip as a Tool for Connection and Empowerment 38:48 The Whisper Network: A Protective System 41:18 The Impact of Investigative Journalism 43:24 The Disappointment of Fallen Idols 44:27 Ghislaine Maxwell and Gendered Justice 45:01 The Role of Female Spies in History 46:06 Women Talking: A Cinematic Reflection 50:00 The Power of Women’s Conversations 53:20 Reclaiming Gossip as a Positive Force References: Dunbar, R. I. M. (2004). Gossip in evolutionary perspective. Review of General Psychology, 8(2), 100–110. Federici, S. (2018). Witches, witch-hunting, and women. PM Press. Feinberg, M., Willer, R., & Schultz, M. (2014). Gossip and ostracism promote cooperation in groups. Psychological Science, 25(3), 656–664. Foster, E. K. (2004). Research on gossip: Taxonomy, methods, and future directions. Review of General Psychology, 8(2), 78–99. Kantor, J., & Twohey, M. (2019). She said: Breaking the sexual harassment story that helped ignite a movement. Penguin Press. Robbins, M. L., & Karan, A. (2020). Who gossips and how in everyday life. Social Psychological and Personality Science, 11(3), 397–405. Toews, M. (2018). Women talking: A novel. Bloomsbury Publishing.   Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : [email protected]   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

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