E31 - I want you close, please get away!

We want it all, it seems: the closeness, safety and predictability of an intimate relationship, as well as the adventure, novelty, exploration and surprise of desire.    How can you honor both needs within you and within your (future) romantic partner? This episode is for all lovers out there. Those who want a relationship, those who are dating, and those who are in a long term relationship.   I introduce you to the concept of the Us space, the Me space and the Them space, which allows you to understand how you can maintain novelty and desire even in close proximity of your love interest. Enjoy!