E85: Holding the Heavy: When Birth Gets Hard

Send us Fan MailBirth work involves witnessing both beautiful and difficult moments, creating an emotional weight that doulas carry alongside their clients. After 23 years as a birth doula, I've learned that acknowledging the challenging aspects of birth is essential for processing and growth.• Difficult births create emotional weight even when outcomes are positive• Recent challenging experiences include a four-hour medical emergency with a newborn who ultimately thrived• VBACs that end in repeat cesareans can be particularly heartbreaking• Birth can be traumatic even when there's a healthy outcome• Medical providers often dismiss emotional trauma with statements like "at least you have a healthy baby" • Doulas experience a unique emotional load due to their continuous relationship with clients• Processing difficult experiences might involve talking with fellow doulas, writing, or sitting in silence• Rituals like lighting candles can help process difficult birth experiences• Hard moments become threads in a tapestry that shape us rather than shatter us• Finding resilience means adapting to both triumphs and difficultiesReach out to someone you know who has experienced a difficult time. Make a human connection - you'll both be better for it.Visit our website, here: https://hatchednlatched.com/Follow us on Facebook at Hatched & LatchedFollow us on Instagram at @hatchenlatchedShow CreditsHost: Angie Rosier Music: Michael Hicks Photographer: Toni WalkerEpisode Artwork: Nick Greenwood Producer: Gillian Rosier FramptonVoiceover: Ryan Parker