Elana Auerbach: The Intimacy Practice That Fixed Our Sex Life #189

Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply!What happens when a Wall Street career, a loveless marriage, and one powerful medicine journey collide? You get Elana Auerbach, sensuality educator and author of The Sure Thing: A Pleasure Practice to Revive the Spark, and she is the real deal. Leah and Willow sit down with Elana to unpack how she went from living a life that looked perfect on paper to discovering deliberate orgasm, building a weekly pleasure practice with her partner of 25 years, and helping couples everywhere trade resentment for genuine erotic connection. If desire discrepancy, low motivation, or years of built-up relationship gunk have been running your sex life, this episode is the reset button you didn't know you needed. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTSFrom Wall Street to priesthood, Elana's journey out of a loveless marriage and into a life built around pleasure is the kind of origin story that makes you want to blow up your own conveyor belt.Deliberate orgasm, orgasmic meditation, pussy stroking as meditation — Leah breaks down the Morehouse roots of this practice and why it still works, controversy aside.Responsive desire is the concept that will change how you think about your sex life. You don't need to be in the mood first. You just need to start.Elana and her partner struggled with desire discrepancy for 12 years before one scheduled weekly practice flipped everything. Here's exactly how she finally invited him in.Your wild sensual self is not gone, she's just waiting for a canvas. Elana started skiing and training for her black belt in aikido in her 50s. That's what a pleasure practice can unlock.LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND HERESlow Tantric Sex Online Masterclass - Join us August 19th at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Erotic Polarity Online Masterclass Register for $55 HERE Support the showPlease help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/newFREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and WorkbookSxR WebsiteDr. Willow's WebsiteLeah's Website