Emancipate Your Mind: 019: Creating Healthy Boundaries

If you struggle with people pleasing and/or codependent patterns with people you care about, it’s at least in part because you struggle with setting healthy boundaries. So many of us were taught that not having clear boundaries was a sign of love and trust. But actually, it’s the exact opposite. Trusting relationships all include healthy boundaries. You cannot have a relationship where both parties feel safe without also having clear, defined boundaries and the ability to discuss what is ok and not ok with all parties involved. If you’ve tried to set boundaries before but have been unsuccessful, this episode will walk you through the common mistakes we’ve all made and the steps to take instead to create boundaries that are clear, kind, and well communicated. After all, boundaries are all about giving the people we care about the best chance to have healthy, trusting, and deeply connected relationships with us. And ultimately, they are also about keeping us and those we care about safe. UPCOMING EVENTS: I’m so excited to announce that I’m teaming up with acclaimed Washington D.C. artist, Heidi Nielson, to bring you a Self-Love Art Exploration Workshop. Join us either the evening of Thursday, April 22nd or in the afternoon on Sunday, April 25th for an online experience to deepen the relationship with your inner self through guided meditation, writing, music, and art therapy. Tickets are $75 and include a hand-selected box of art supplies shipped directly to your door to help you create your own healing self-love collage featuring your photo. Click the link below for more information and to register. Space is limited. https://effervescent-coaching.mykajabi.com/self-love-art-exploration WANT MORE SUPPORT? If you’d like to be part of an online community where we take the podcast topics and pull them apart for discussion and further learning, talk about all the religious transition things, and just enjoy each other’s company, join my free “Emancipate Yourself” Facebook group at this link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/370375144009891 Or if you want to follow me for religious and psychological insights, commentary on events in the world, links to other people doing great work related to religion, and little windows into my real life, follow me on Instagram or Reddit @EmancipatedMolly , TikTok @EmancipatedTeri , or Twitter @EmancipatedTeri. If you have a question or want to talk about further coaching support, please email me at [email protected]