Emasculated Male Narcissists

Narcissistic mothers are extremely smothering. With a weak dad, the son of these mothers will come to enmesh and rely on their mother even into adulthood. With no ability to develop a healthy ego and a sense of self, the suffering male will look for female partners who are similar to their mother and look to take revenge on their female partners for what their mother did to them. To heal from this type of enmeshment the individual  suffering from extreme toxic shame will need to work to separate and individuate from mom and develop a healthy and assertive sense of self.