Emotional Abuse, Red Flags & Toxic Love in College - Hope's Story

Hope shares her story of toxic college relationships, emotional abuse, and red flags. Learn how to spot warning signs and build healthier love. Red flag relationships in college can be confusing, manipulative, and emotionally draining. In this episode of the 7 On Sundays™ podcast, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye sit down with Hope, who bravely shares her story of two emotionally abusive early relationships. From intense dependency and gaslighting to subtle manipulation and coercion, Hope reveals the warning signs that many young adults miss. This powerful conversation explores: The red flags of toxic college relationships How to trust your intuition and set boundaries Why emotional abuse is often overlooked in young love The role of therapy and support in healing and resilience Whether you are in college, a parent, or simply navigating the complexities of modern relationships, this episode offers life-saving insights into recognizing unhealthy dynamics before they escalate. Hope's courage, combined with Dr. Chez and Stephanie's expertise, provides listeners with tools to protect their mental health, foster self-awareness, and create stronger, healthier relationships. RESOURCES If you or a loved one are in an abusive relationship, please call your local police or The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224  The National Dating Abuse Helpline 1-866-331-9474 *988 The National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Trigger Warning & Introduction 01:32 Hope's Story: Early Relationships and Emotional Manipulation 06:35 A Second Relationship: Casual to Toxic 11:20 Hope's Reflections and Lessons Learned 17isCatching Red Flags 19:50 Breaking Patterns From Your Upbringing 25:07 Relationships Shouldn't be a Burden 30:04 Hope's Advice for Young Listeners 37:25 Therapist's Analysis and Final Thoughts