EPISODE · Dec 22, 2023 · 34 MIN
Emotions: Unlocked - Series 1 Episode 9 - Phobias
from Emotions: Unlocked - Dive into the purpose and meaning of your emotions - they are your friends! · host Jemima Blazdell and Emma Starling
Navigating PhobiasPhobias are more than just fear — they are the body's learned response to something it has decided, often long ago, is a threat. In this episode, we turn our attention to what phobias actually are, how they take hold, and what's really going on beneath the surface when they're triggered. We use arachnophobia as our case study, with a candid account of the physical and emotional reactions that accompany it — the kind of visceral, seemingly irrational response that anyone who has ever had a phobia will instantly recognise. From there, we move into a live EFT session working directly with the spider phobia, and what unfolds is revealing: beneath the fear of spiders lies something more fundamental — a fear of losing control. By tracing the phobia back to a specific childhood memory and gently working through it using tapping, we watch the emotional charge dissolve in real time. The past event doesn't change, but the meaning held around it does — and with it, the fear begins to loosen its grip. This episode is a vivid demonstration of how EFT works in practice, and a reminder that the roots of our fears, once seen clearly, rarely have the power over us that we imagined.00:02 Introduction and Greetings 00:16 Discussion on Phobias 01:50 Personal Experiences with Phobias 02:54 Deep Dive into Spider Phobia 08:43 Tapping Technique to Address Phobias 11:17 Linking Phobias with Control Issues 15:46 Revisiting the Spider Phobia 16:16 Childhood Memory Related to Spider Phobia 17:35 Imagining the Event 18:09 Identifying the Emotional Spike 18:55 Tapping Through the Points 19:23 Understanding the Fear 20:39 Reliving the Memory 21:39 Addressing the Feeling of Being Trapped 22:46 Releasing the Fear 23:34 Reflecting on the Experience 23:52 Revisiting the Event 24:15 Uncovering the Underlying Decision 24:31 Understanding the Impact of the Event 25:35 Reframing the Experience 27:11 Checking the Reaction to Spiders 29:55 Reflecting on the Healing Process 30:18 Wrapping Up the SessionSupport the showWe hope you liked this and it helped in some way, if it did please subscribe wherever you like to access your Podcasts and feel free to share the love with friends or anyone you think it might help! As always, if you need further help with this or anything else related to navigating this thing called life, Emma & Jemima are only a message away. Connect with Jemima here;Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StressFreeLifeAcademy LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jemima-blazdell-2209679/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stressfreelifeacademy/Connect with Emma here;Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/evolvedenergetics/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emmastarling/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evolvedenergetics/
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Navigating Phobias Phobias are more than just fear — they are the body's learned response to something it has decided, often long ago, is a threat. In this episode, we turn our attention to what phobias actually are, how they take hold, and what's really going on beneath the surface when they're triggered. We use arachnophobia as our case study, with a candid account of the physical and emotional reactions that accompany it — the kind of visceral, seemingly irrational response tha...
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