Empathy Isn't Killing Us. Enabling Is.
from The Pressures of Privilege Hosted by Diana Oehrli
What does it feel like when genuine kindness tips into rescue? In this solo episode of The Pressures of Privilege, Diana Oehrli draws on Dr. Jud Brewer's habit-loop research and 20 years watching people she loves get rescued until there was nothing left to rescue. She traces the enabling crisis to its source: generations of people with enough resources to avoid correction, who perfected the habit of insulating others from consequences and passed it along like an heirloom, long before the pattern spread anywhere else. She shows you how to recognize the contracted feeling in your chest when your compassion is serving your own discomfort and what it looks like to be a steward: someone who stays in the room while another person goes through the hard thing. The body keeps its own ledger, Brewer found. It knows. If you've ever wondered whether your helping is actually helping, this episode was made for you. Chapters (00:00:05) - Empathy Isn't Killing Us, It's Enabling Crim (00:06:31) - The Need for Real Empathy
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