Encourage yourself sister. You are not what others portray you to be. People are not what they portray themselves to be.

Send us Fan MailWhen you make a mess in life, all you must do is STOP and identify it so you can clean it up. Most importantly my girl you must fix your own mess. Know that it is okay for things to get messy and fall apart. Yes, it is hard to do it on your own. That is why you must use the wisdom that God gave you to identify the ones who are in your life to help you clean up the mess. Not everyone around you is there to fix the mess. 9 times out of 10 they are there to make the mess messier. That is why you must be able to point out the ones who serve you no good. Many individuals love just to enjoy watching you in the pit of a mess. My girl, it is time to give yourself the advice that you want to hear from others. It will help you in the long run. I am guilty, I used to always run to others for help. For words of encouragement. I then realized that they really did not give me words of encouragement to help me. They were not genuine all, they just loved to hear my problems. I was a joke to everyone. That is why you must be able to identify the real from fake.  You must know that God is the main one and the only one besides yourself who will get you out of the mess and clean it up. There may be times where you feel like you have nowhere to go. Also, feel like everything has fallen apart. Just pick yourself back up and give yourself the words of encouragement that you want to hear from others. Learn how to encourage yourself. That is one of the most important things about knowing how to encourage yourself. Once you learn how to motivate yourself and know that God will never place you in a situation that you cannot bear. Everything will all start to come together. So, pray when you feel like you are becoming down, know that God, has your back?Support the showhttps://www.instagram.com/himynameisdijanae_anyouare?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr