Endings

Many of us build our identity around a role—a job, a relationship, parenting, caregiving, or a title we've held for years.But what happens when that role ends?In this episode, I share a message from an 81-year-old listener who was unexpectedly forced into retirement after working her entire life. What she is experiencing isn't really a retirement problem. It's an identity transition.We'll explore why losing a role can feel so disorienting, the lie our culture tells us about aging and usefulness, and how to begin creating meaning in a chapter you didn't choose.If you've ever wondered who you are after a major life change, this episode is for you.In This Episode:Why the loss of a role can feel like the loss of yourselfThe difference between your identity and your job, title, or circumstancesThe hidden grief that often comes with retirement, divorce, empty nest, and career transitionsWhy your value doesn't disappear when a chapter endsA powerful question to help you create your next chapter with intentionKey TakeawayThe role ended. Not you.A chapter may close, but your value, purpose, wisdom, and ability to contribute remain.The question is no longer, "What do I do now?"The question is:"Who do I want to become next?"