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EPISODE · Jul 15, 2026 · 34 MIN

(ENG) REBECCA MINOR - The Silent B: @Bi_ Invisibility

from DEEP&DIRTY with Lisa Opel · host Lisa Opel | Deep Thoughts & Dirty Laughs

(ENG): REBECCA MINOR @bi_invisibility: Bi+ invisibility, straight-assumed relationships, identity, motherhood, and finding the words for who you are. Watch this on YouTube: What happens when you know you are queer, but the world keeps reading your life as straight? In this episode, I talk to Rebecca Minor, therapist, gender specialist, author, and co-founder of bi+ (in)visibility. We speak about bi+ invisibility, straight-assumed relationships, identity, motherhood, coming out, bisexual men, community, and the question so many people carry quietly: Am I queer enough? Rebecca reminds us that your actions do not determine your identity. You can be bi, queer, pan, questioning, married, monogamous, a parent, private, visible, or still figuring things out. Your identity is still yours. About Rebecca: Rebecca Minor is a queer therapist, educator, and founder of bi+ (in)visibility, an online community for bi+, pan, and queer people navigating life in straight-assumed relationships. Drawing from both her clinical work and lived experience, Rebecca helps people untangle identity, belonging, visibility, and what it means to be known. Her work has resonated with hundreds of thousands of people who have spent years wondering whether they are "queer enough" and looking for language, community, and connection. She is also the author of Raising Trans Kids: What to Expect When You Weren’t Expecting This. Links: Instagram: @bi_invisibility | @gender.specialist | bi+ (in)visibility: genderspecialist.com/bi-invisibility | Rebecca’s book: Raising Trans Kids: What to Expect When You Weren’t Expecting This I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook My book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback) Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

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