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EPISODE · Aug 19, 2026 · 1H 43M

Enrichment in O/our Enclosure: Control in Power Exchange

from Don’t Scare the Newbies!

Usually if kirizal asks S why They like something, the answer is “power and control”, so this week W/we dive into that favourite “conceptual kink”. What is control, and how is it distinct from power? W/we chat about what consensual control brings to O/our relationship, and the process of negotiating and developing rules and discipline and how this becomes conditioning over time. Plus - why kirizal is so difficult to punish, emotional sadomasochism and behaviour modification, risk (of course!), and developing a dynamic centred around control.Content Note: Discussion of coercive control, abusive relationships, and heavy psychological playFollow kirizal’s blog and find all their socials at www.kirizal.comSupport U/us on Patreon at patreon.com/dontscarethenewbies

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