Environment vs Willpower

Why can’t we just bloom where we are planted or better yet go where we are watered! Oh I wish it were that easy to navigate the nuances of life. More often than not we’re a victim of circumstance and sometimes of lack within self… let’s navigate the reality of life in blunt honesty. Is it really that easy to do better… or better yet to find better? It is not everyday that we have the privilege to do either… what do we do then ?