Ep. 015 - April Davis - How To Find Love (And Not Die Trying)

April Davis is an entrepreneur, a dating expert, and the founder and CEO of LUMA Luxury Matchmaking.We are social creatures, we are meant together. Most people are looking for love, companionship, and connection. In an era where it seems like finding this is "easier" than ever before thanks to technology, dating apps, etc. We have come to realize that it has been the opposite.April shares her insights into why modern dating is out of whack, the damage that dating apps and social media apps, in general, have done to society, and the reasons why people feel hopeless about love. She also shares advice on how men and women can improve their chances of meeting someone they feel excited about and connect with.From understanding the dating landscape and recognizing the flaws within to getting rid of belief systems like the spark needs to be present on a first date, this episode encapsulates all you need to know about giving yourself a better chance to meet someone you would want to build a life with without dying trying.In this episode, you will learn:Why dating apps seem to be not workingUnrealistic expectations when looking for a partnerLoneliness in today's societyHow instant gratification has affected datingThe struggles successful women have in datingWomen's "icks" and how these keep them from finding loveMistakes to avoid on a first dateHow men can market themselves betterPlus much more...0:00 Intro1:40 Modern dating4:45 Loneliness in society7:10 People giving up on dating8:10 Dating apps12:40 How LUMA finds matches for people15:25 What's keeping men single18:15 How men can get better approaching women20:55 How women struggle to find a partner23:40 Lowering unrealistic expectations 26:40 Successful women dating struggles31:20 Women's icks32:50 Dating for dismissal34:25 What inspired April to launch LUMA36:25 People's emotions when dating37:40 Things to avoid on a first date40:15 How can men market themselves better?43:35 Where to find AprilFollow April Davis:Website: https://lumasearch.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aprildavismatchmaker/                         https://www.instagram.com/lumasearch/Let's Connect.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danielmcianci/Twitter:  https://twitter.com/DanielMCianciYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@redefiningwisdomEmail: https://www.redefiningwisdom.com/contact-2/Website: https://www.redefiningwisdom.com/