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Ep 043 Let ‘someone else’ do the scary work

Episode 43 of the The Girl and Duck Podcast podcast, hosted by Girl and Duck, titled "Ep 043 Let ‘someone else’ do the scary work" was published on June 28, 2023 and runs 14 minutes.

June 28, 2023 ·14m · The Girl and Duck Podcast

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It the world of online biz, we’re encouraged to separate ourselves from our business. Your business is not you. Your business has its own energetic imprint, an identity that’s quite separate from you personally. GirlandDuck is not me. My biz is like a token, a piece I circulate and move around on the boardgame of life. As creatives we can do the same. We can ‘employ’ someone else to do the marketing, the pitches, take the rejections and critiques, do the stuff we find confronting or scary. Madonna has been quoted has saying that she is not Madonna, she employs Madonna. I employ Jen Storer Author. I also employ Jen Storer Coach. Neither of them is the real me. I find this tactic super helpful. It gives perspective. It gives me courage. It’s a powerful way of protecting my tender heart. And let’s face it, all creatives have tender hearts! ► About Jen & Girl and Duck: If you'd like to subscribe to my museletters, yay! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. For more girl&duck goodness, go here - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠GirlandDuck.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Jen's Life Coaching page can be found ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join Jen's creative writing community ⁠⁠⁠the Duck Pond⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Jen on Instagram:  ⁠⁠⁠@jenestorer ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Subscribe to Jen's YouTube Channel - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Jen's Author website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠jenstorer.com⁠⁠⁠ ► Free stuff Get writing immediately. Writing prompts to get your imagination flowing! Get four AWESOME writing prompts delivered to your inbox over four days. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://girlandduck.com/free-writing-prompts/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Grab this freebie! A booklet containing the transcripts from Jen's, 'Hey Author' reels on Instagram. Full of tips and wisdom for writers at every level! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.jenstorerpresents.com/hey-author⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Free Mini Course: 5 Ways to Write a Book with Jen Storer ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.jenstorerpresents.com/5-ways-to-write-a-book-with-jen-storer

It the world of online biz, we’re encouraged to separate ourselves from our business.


Your business is not you. Your business has its own energetic imprint, an identity that’s quite separate from you personally. GirlandDuck is not me. My biz is like a token, a piece I circulate and move around on the boardgame of life.


As creatives we can do the same. We can ‘employ’ someone else to do the marketing, the pitches, take the rejections and critiques, do the stuff we find confronting or scary. Madonna has been quoted has saying that she is not Madonna, she employs Madonna.


I employ Jen Storer Author. I also employ Jen Storer Coach. Neither of them is the real me. I find this tactic super helpful. It gives perspective. It gives me courage. It’s a powerful way of protecting my tender heart. And let’s face it, all creatives have tender hearts!


About Jen & Girl and Duck:

If you'd like to subscribe to my museletters, yay! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

For more girl&duck goodness, go here - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠GirlandDuck.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Jen's Life Coaching page can be found ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Join Jen's creative writing community ⁠⁠⁠the Duck Pond⁠⁠⁠

Follow Jen on Instagram:  ⁠⁠⁠@jenestorer ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Subscribe to Jen's YouTube Channel - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Jen's Author website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠jenstorer.com⁠⁠⁠


Free stuff


Get writing immediately.

Writing prompts to get your imagination flowing! Get four AWESOME writing prompts delivered to your inbox over four days.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://girlandduck.com/free-writing-prompts/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


Grab this freebie!

A booklet containing the transcripts from Jen's, 'Hey Author' reels on Instagram. Full of tips and wisdom for writers at every level! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.jenstorerpresents.com/hey-author⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


Free Mini Course:

5 Ways to Write a Book with Jen Storer ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠https://www.jenstorerpresents.com/5-ways-to-write-a-book-with-jen-storer

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