Ep 046: Jordan Goldrich The Misunderstood Bully WIth Guest Host: JJ FLizanes

About Jordan Goldrich: Jordan is a Master Corporate Executive Coach who partners with senior and developing leaders and executives who have a strong desire for results, who take charge, lead their teams, and accomplish the mission. His mission is to help them be completely authentic, fulfill their mission, and morale while taking performance to an even higher level. Jordan leverages his background as a Chief Operations Officer, Master Corporate Executive Coach, Professional Certified Coach, and Licensed Clinical Social Worker. He is co-author of the Amazon bestseller, Workplace Warrior®: People Skills For The No-Bullshit Executive, and producer and host of the Podcast Workplace Warrior: Drive Results Without Damaging Relationships®. "When I realized that I needed the data and perspectives from everyone, even people I did not respect, I learned to cultivate compassion for people my brain was telling me don't deserve it." Jordan Goldrich, MCEC   In this episode, Jordan and JJ Flizanes discuss: Most executives perceived as a bully, don't want to hurt people. Most think the pressure to change their communication style is politically correct bull.  These leaders must find their authentic motivation to change Part of that motivation is knowing you need data and perspectives from everyone to be successful. Even people you don't respect know things that you don't know.    Key Takeaways The most effective leaders use a balance of "hard power" and "soft power" If you want to lead effectively, you have to talk to people in the language that they speak Some people will be offended by you because of their background and personality- This is not in your control. The effectiveness of Marshall Goldsmith's "Feedforward" process for determining what will work in your organization.     "How someone shows up in the world and how someone receives them are two different things" —  JJ Flizanes Get the complimentary guide: How To Select An Executive Coach at www.selectcoach.workplacewarrior.com    Get the Am I Abrasive Self Test at abrasive.workplacewarrior.com  Connect with JJ Flizanes:   Website: https://jjflizanes.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jjflizanes/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jflizanes/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jj-flizanes/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu6dllSIfbEVtBKbpDBavKw Book: http://invisiblefitness.com/the-invisible-fitness/    Connect with Jordan:  Get the complimentary guide: How To Select An Executive Coach at www.selectcoach.workplacewarrior.com  Get the Am I Abrasive Self Test at abrasive.workplacewarrior.com    Website: www.workplacewarriorinc.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/jordangoldrich1 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jordan.goldrich Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordangoldrich/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jgoldrich/