EP 08: Are they "The One"? (Friendship edition)

In this episode we talk about the traits to look for in a good friendship. These are in no particular order and are by no means an extensive list (there is so much you can add).  1. You have similar core values. Your core values are fundamental to what makes you, you as a person. This often determine your choices and lifestyle. 2. Look for people who are not entitled. Friendship is supposed to be mutually beneficial. None of the parties in this friendship are a charity or a non-profit. 3.Look for people who celebrate your wins. When you win, they are honestly happy for you and they also want to see you win. 4. They are there for you when you need them the most. 5. They push you to become better and challenge your views so that you can grow as a person. Said differently, the more you spend time with them, the more you achieve your goals and become better. 5. Look for people who do not victimise, control, or want      to censor you. A healthy friendship is a platform where you do not feel insecure but become more self-confident. 6. Look for people who will not go out of their way to offend you, they are not aggressive, violent, or narcissistic. 7. They do not negatively affect your relationship with God, your family, partners, and other friends as well - obviously within reason. 8. You are not embarrassed by them and you know exactly why you are friends with them. You see the value that this person has in your life and you see your life becoming better as a result of this friendship.