Ep 085 – Dia Bondi – How to Ask for More

Featuring: Dia Bondi In Episode 085 of Agency Bytes, I had the privilege of sitting down with Dia Bondi, a communications expert and author of Ask Like an Auctioneer. Dia shares her fascinating journey from the world of auctioneering to becoming a sought-after communication coach. We dive deep into the art of asking effectively in high-stakes situations, exploring how to embrace rejection, craft impactful asks, and understand the value behind what you're offering. Dia introduces her powerful framework for building and delivering asks with confidence and clarity. This episode is packed with insights on training your mindset to recognize what you truly want, articulate it boldly, and go after it fearlessly. Dia inspires us to make our dreams known and actively chase our goals with intention and determination. If you’ve ever struggled with asking for what you deserve, this conversation is one you don’t want to miss! Key Takeaways • Asking like an auctioneer involves maximizing potential asks. • Rejection should be seen as a sign of success, not failure. • Design your asks based on what you truly want, not what you think you can get. • Understanding the perceived value is crucial in negotiations. • The offer inside the ask should benefit both parties involved. • Mindset plays a significant role in how we approach asking for what we want. • It's important to communicate your dreams to those around you. • Asking for more can lead to greater outcomes than anticipated. • The process of auctioneering provides valuable insights into effective communication. • Honesty and generosity should guide your asks, not manipulation. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Asking Like an Auctioneer 05:16 The Connection Between Asking and Auctioneering 10:28 Mindset: Embracing Rejection 15:30 Designing Your Ask 20:57 The Offer Inside the Ask 27:03 Final Thoughts and Rapid Fire Questions Dia Bondi is a Communications Catalyst, Speaker, and Author of Ask Like an Auctioneer: How to Ask for More and Get It. She coaches VC-backed founders, executives, and ambitious professionals to speak powerfully when the stakes are high. She helped Rio de Janeiro win the right to host the 2016 Summer Olympics and has helped countless leaders secure hundreds of millions in decisions and resources. A hobbyist fundraising auctioneer, Dia’s TEDx Talk was selected as a TED Editors’ Pick, showcasing how to make the kinds of asks that can change everything.   Learn more about Dia and her services on her website.