Ep 10 Sperm Donor Conception: The Biggest Mistakes, Mindset Shifts & What We Learned from a Donor Therapist

In this episode of Unfertile & Unfiltered, we’re breaking down everything we learned from our first donor therapist appointment—and what completely shifted our perspective on building a family through donor conception.We went in expecting surface-level advice… but walked away with clarity on some of the biggest decisions we’ll make as parents.We talk about:Why openness matters more than you thinkThe biggest mistake families make (and why it can backfire later)How to talk to your kids about being donor-conceivedLetting your child lead their own storyRemoving shame and normalizing non-traditional paths to parenthoodThe mindset shift that helped us accept this journeyWe also get real about navigating other people’s opinions, handling family dynamics, and why secrecy can do more harm than good.If you’re going through infertility, considering a donor, or just trying to understand this path better, this episode is for you.And as always… we keep it honest, a little chaotic, and completely unfiltered.Here are the links to different books: Our Hearts Match: A Heartwarming Children's Book Celebrating Donor Conception, Egg Donation, Embryo Donation, and Diverse FamiliesWhat Makes a BabyFamilies Come in Many FormsThe Pea That Was Me