Ep.11: Sexual Addiction with Abbe Barclay

In this episode, we are joined by Abbe Barclay, a seasoned Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. With over 30 years of experience, Abbe offers invaluable insights into the complex world of sexual addiction. We discuss the nuances of sex addiction, its impact on relationships, and effective paths to recovery. Whether you're personally affected or simply curious about the subject, this episode sheds light on a topic often shrouded in misunderstanding and stigma.Episode Highlights:[1:32] - Colette shares her personal connection to the topic.[3:47] - Abbe explains how she started working with sex addiction.[4:21] - Debunking common misconceptions about sex addiction.[5:52] - The psychological underpinnings of sex addiction.[7:42] - The cycle of addiction: preoccupation, ritual, acting out, and despair.[10:07] - Key signs and symptoms to look for in a sex addict.[12:57] - The importance of addressing underlying emotional and psychological issues.[18:36] - Differences in how sex addiction presents in men and women.[22:19] - The role of denial and the importance of trained therapists.[23:24] - The healing process: what it takes to recover.[25:13] - Resources and books recommended by Abbe for further education.[32:49] - Final thoughts on seeking appropriate help and setting boundaries.Resources:Abbe Barclay's private practice: Clarity Counseling CenterRecommended Reading: Sex Addiction 101 by Robert WeissMending a Shattered Heart by Stefanie CarnesCourageous Love: A Guide for Couples Conquering Betrayal by Stefanie CarnesScreening tests: Sexhelp.comFind a certified therapist: IITAPSeeking Integrity: https://seekingintegrity.com/ For more on this topic visit our website insightsfromthecouch.org If you have questions please email us at [email protected] we would love to hear from you!If today's discussion resonated with you or sparked curiosity, please rate, follow, and share "Insights from the Couch" with others. Your support helps us reach more people and continue providing valuable insights. Here’s to finding our purposes and living a life full of meaning and joy. Stay tuned for more!Ever stayed quiet to keep the peace and felt yourself disappear? The Cost of Quiet is for anyone who avoids conflict and pays the price. Reclaim your voice, strengthen your relationships, and experience real peace. Order your copy and join the movement: https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-book🎙️ Love the podcast? Come talk about episodes with us inside The Midlife Chat. It’s a free, private community just for women at midlife who want to keep these conversations going. We’ve created this space for real talk, fresh resources, and honest connection—where you can share ideas and resources, ask questions, and get support from women navigating the same season.  Come join us—we’d love to have you!👉 Join The Midlife Chat here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/795863256460970/Order The Cost of Quiet now! Colette’s new book, The Cost of Quiet: How to Have the Hard Conversations that Create Secure, Lasting Love, launched February 3rd. Order your copy today: https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-bookRecognized by FeedSpot:Top 60 Couples Therapy Podcasts | Top 100 U.S. Mental Health Podcasts | Top 100 Relaxation Podcasts