EP 12: An Honest Conversation with Alexis Andra on Divorce and Healing

This week's episode, I sat down with a dear friend Alexis Andra. We've been friends for over a decade and I am honored that she was open and willing to share her journey with divorce and how that has impacted her life. She dives deep into the emotional struggles she faced during her relationship, how her faith was affected, and the process of healing. She shares valuable insights on the importance of inner work, self-acceptance, and seeking counseling. Alexis also offers advice for her younger self and others navigating similar experiences. Throughout this meaningful discussion, Alexis's resilience and candidness paint a picture of growth and understanding, making it a must-watch for anyone looking for encouragement and wisdom in relationship challenges.About Alexis Andra: Alexis Andra is the creative force behind The Shift Creative, a marketing agency specializing in brand narratives through innovative sets, experiences, and digital campaigns. With a background in psychology and a deep faith, Alexis is also a motivational speaker and writer. Her remarkable journey from childhood adversity to entrepreneurial success, marriage, and eventual divorce underscores her resilience and determination.  Through her work and her words, she endeavors to instill hope and remind others that even in the midst of pain, there is profound purpose waiting to be discovered.Insta: @alexisnandra business: @theshiftcreative www.theshiftcreative.com00:00 Introduction and Guest Presentation00:58 Reminiscing Old Times and Friendship02:36 Memories of Shared Experiences03:45 Discussing Professional Life and Career04:30 Diving into Personal Life and Relationships05:21 Reflecting on the End of a Relationship05:31 Exploring the Aftermath of Separation07:17 Understanding the Importance of Individual Growth10:08 Discussing the Role of Faith in Relationships11:44 The Importance of Emotional Depth in Relationships13:38 The Struggles of Balancing Personal and Professional Life17:35 The Role of Counseling in Relationships23:59 The Impact of Divorce on Faith and Self-Perception26:10 Struggles with Faith and Church26:48 Feeling Hurt by the Church27:31 The Importance of Love and Disagreement32:51 The Impact of Gossip35:42 The Decision to Divorce38:59 The Aftermath of Divorce41:30 Reflections and Lessons Learned46:27 The Power of Apology and Healing49:45 Final Thoughts and Gratitude1:1 Coaching with BeatriceDating and relationships can bring up confusion, self doubt, or emotional activation, even for people who are thoughtful, self aware, and growth oriented. When the same patterns keep repeating, it’s often a sign something deeper is asking for attention. I work one on one with people navigating this, helping them build the emotional security and clarity needed for healthy, aligned relationships. If you’re curious about working together, you can book a call through the link below we’ll see if it’s the right fit.Book a Call Instagram:@letstalkrelationships_Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/