Ep. 12 The Games We Play, Dating, & The Crock Pot Strategy

Send us Fan MailWhat's the difference between someone you'll date once versus someone who captures your full attention? According to our candid exploration of modern dating, it might come down to whether they teach you something meaningful about yourself, them, or the world around you.In this unfiltered conversation, we dive into the psychology behind dating preferences, revealing that intellectual stimulation often trumps physical attraction when it comes to lasting interest. "If you don't have any substance, I'm cooked and I'm just gonna pay the bill and I'm not gonna engage ever again," one host confesses, highlighting how quickly we determine someone's potential.We unpack "The Crock-Pot Game" – a patient, strategic approach to building attraction through small, meaningful interactions over time rather than rushing into intimacy. This counterintuitive method challenges the instant gratification culture dominating dating apps and might explain why some people effortlessly attract partners while others struggle despite their best efforts.The episode takes an honest turn discussing dating "icks" – from superficial concerns like personal grooming to deeper issues like lacking hobbies or interests. We explore the complex psychology behind who pays on first dates, revealing that even the most independent women secretly hope men will decline their offers to split the bill. "If you let them pay, they are going to talk about you later," warns one host, pulling back the curtain on post-date discussions.Whether you're actively dating or in a relationship, this episode offers illuminating insights into human connection that will transform how you approach romantic encounters. After all, as we conclude: dating might be "ghetto," but finding someone worth your time makes the journey worthwhile.Ready to approach dating with newfound wisdom? Subscribe for more unfiltered conversations that challenge conventional thinking and offer practical insights for navigating relationships in today's complex world.Support the showEmail us for our Socials: [email protected]