EP 120: The Hidden Cost of Always Putting Yourself Last: How to Reclaim Your Life

Welcome to "Thriving in Midlife Redefining Aging with Wellness" the podcast where we discuss how to live an extraordinary life in every aspect. I'm your host, Kellie Lupsha, a high-performance health coach, who is delighted to be your guide to vitality. In this episode, I’m getting real about something so many of us women face: the guilt, shame, and trauma of putting ourselves last. I share my personal journey of learning to prioritize myself, why self-care isn’t selfish, and how this mindset shift can change everything, from your health to your relationships and even your finances. If you’ve ever felt stuck or like you’re constantly giving to everyone but yourself, this episode is for you. Key Highlights: Why self-care isn’t just pampering, it’s reclaiming your self-worth. How people-pleasing can quietly sabotage your confidence and choices The surprising connection between guilt, trauma, and your everyday habits. Why investing in yourself is often easier than you think, once you shift your mindset. How to identify the areas where you’re putting yourself last. The “blue box” exercise, visualizing your authentic, extraordinary self. Why repeating patterns of self-sabotage happen and how to stop it. How accountability and coaching can help you truly break free. The role of community and sisterhood in sustaining personal growth. Simple mindset shifts to step into 2026 with fun, flow, and ferocity. Key Takeaways: “Put your trauma, shame, people pleasing, put it all out, get rid of it. Let's pull it out of the covers. Let's look at it. Let's tear it apart. Let's send it out to the world..."- Kellie Lupsha “But if you can’t say, I love myself, I honor myself, I put myself first in my routines… you’re still like putting yourself second. ”- Kellie Lupsha *TAKE THE FREE ~ DISCOVER YOUR MIDLIFE HEALTH BLUEPRINT***** >>> Click Here <<< 1️⃣ JOIN US IN THE WOMEN’S LONGEVITY & WELLNESS HUB! A Functional Medicine, Wellness, and Coaching Membership designed just for women over 50. The Hub is a monthly membership and supportive community where we combine science-backed protocols, natural healing tools, and expert coaching to help you finally get real answers—and real results**. 👉 ****Join us Here 2️⃣ I can’t stop talking about P84 - It is the Masterpiece of all gut healing. Finally no more bloating, gassiness, pregnant after meals, and feel better in those jeans! Yes, it is a simple system to mix in water and it regulates, repairs and restores ALL aspects of your gut. Say goodbye to multiple digestive enzymes, probiotics, prebiotics, fermented food; P84 is hear to the rescue to officially heal our guts. “All disease starts in the gut” …Hippocrates. Check it out and order here “The Healthy Edge” 3️⃣ My #1 Health Hack** I Never Go Without. This is my go-to EVERYDAY for feeling my best, achieving quality sleep, having amazing energy, and supporting my overall wellness and longevity.** Discover the Healthy Glow Stack! 4️⃣ Lastly, if you’d like to Book a $37 Coaching Session with me, Grab it today - The best time to start is TODAY Book Now! Connect with me on: Facebook: @‌kellie.lupsha⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠@kellielupshaTikTok: ⁠⁠@womenslongevityexpertYouTube: @‌kellielupsha⁠⁠Website: kellielupsha.com MAKE SURE YOU SHARE, RATE THE EPISODE 5 STARS & LEAVE A REVIEW!