Ep. 123: Sexual Performance Anxiety & the Myths Holding You Back

Apply for a free Intimacy Breakthrough Call to learn about Heather’s Pathway to Passion coaching method. https://heathershannon.co/new-clients/ Premature Ejaculation & Sex Addiction Myths: The Truth About Male Sexual Health with Sex Therapist Seth Taylor, LMFTMost men have been misled about sexual performance, from unrealistic expectations around lasting longer to harmful myths about "sex addiction." In this episode, Heather Shannon sits down with Seth Taylor, a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in men’s sexual health, to set the record straight.They discuss the real causes of premature ejaculation (PE), effective treatments, and why the term "sex addiction" is controversial among sex therapists. Plus, they explore the shame-free approach to out-of-control sexual behavior (OCSB) and how it differs from traditional addiction models.If you or your partner experience PE, erectile dysfunction (ED), or compulsive sexual behaviors, this episode will help you understand the root causes and practical steps to regain confidence in your sex life.00:00 Introduction and Special Guest Introduction01:30 Meet Seth Taylor: Specializing in men’s sexual health03:00 What is premature ejaculation? Clinical definitions & myths08:45 Why most men have unrealistic expectations about lasting longer12:30 The psychological causes of PE: Anxiety, shame and trauma18:00 Effective treatments: Medication, therapy and pelvic floor work22:45 What is out-of-control sexual behavior (OCSB)?30:00 The problem with "sex addiction" & why language matters40:30 How to overcome shame and build a healthy relationship with sex50:00 Final thoughts and where to find SethWORK WITH HEATHERApply for a free Intimacy Breakthrough Call to learn about Heather’s Pathway to Passion coaching method. https://heathershannon.co/new-clients/  LET’S CONNECT! Find warmth HERE ⤵️:Heather’s Website: https://HeatherShannon.co Heather’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/AskASexTherapist Heather’s YouTube: Check out the video version of this podcast & more! - https://www.youtube.com/@AskASexCoach  Heather’s Pathway to Passion: https://heather-shannon.mykajabi.com/pathway Heather’s Courses: https://heather-shannon.mykajabi.com/storeHeather’s Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/heathershannonlcpc Connect with Seth Taylor:Email: [email protected] AWESOME / MENTIONED EPISODES:Liked the episode? Here’s a few more episodes of Ask A Sex Therapist that you'll enjoy:Age Play Video: https://youtu.be/TURlpFGTTOk? si=ISQI-s-TBuVo2xIm Sex and Disability Video: https://youtu.be/jPKzoXg3-kI? si=6aQnWzlwWguXXIA8 Come As You Are Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1982165316? linkCode=ssc&tag=onamzheat0ce5-20&creativeASIN=1982165316&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.29BK4OTJWL4UF&ref_=aip_sf_asn_list_ofs_mixed_d_qv_asin Ethical Slut Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0399579664? linkCode=ssc&tag=onamzheat0ce5-20&creativeASIN=0399579664&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.29BK4OTJWL4UF&ref_=aip_sf_asn_list_ofs_mixed_d_qv_asin RATE & REVIEW US!Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here. https://podfollow.com/AskASexTherapist This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podtrac - https://analytics.podtrac.com/privacy-policy-gdrp