EP 13 【EN】: Dating Diaries - 12 Grapes Ain't Working This Year

Half past October and… no sign of my New Year’s wish coming true yet. Maybe the 12 grapes I ate at Mili’s house didn’t work — probably because I forgot to hide under the table while eating them!In this solo episode, I share some funny yet honest reflections about dating as an independent adult in Beijing — from awkward Bumble encounters to quiet café afternoons, from realizing my standards to learning what “alignment” really means in love.If you’ve ever felt open to love but nothing quite lands, or if you’re torn between wanting fireworks and craving stability, this one’s for you.🎙️ Let’s talk about love, timing, and the kind of peace that comes with knowing yourself — even when love’s still “loading.”十月都过一半了，我的新年愿望好像还没兑现。也许是因为我在Mili家吃的十二颗葡萄没发挥作用——大概因为我没躲在桌子底下吃吧？这一集，我想和你聊聊身为独立女生在北京的约会日常：从奇葩的网聊经历，到一个人喝咖啡的平静时光；从重新认识自己的标准，到理解“合拍”比“浪漫”更重要。如果你也有过那种“想恋爱，却总是没感觉”的阶段，或者在“烟花式的激情”与“稳定的温柔”之间犹豫不决，这一集你一定会有共鸣。🎙️ 我们一起来聊聊爱情、时机，以及那种即使爱情还在加载中，也能找到的平静。