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EPISODE · Mar 25, 2026 · 13 MIN

Ep 13 | Is Fear Stealing Your Peace? Three Barriers that Keep Leaders from Accepting God's Peace

from Leading from Wholeness | Boundaries, Faith, Identity, Leadership Coach · host Audrey Shelby - Leadership Coach

Join us for the 2026 Pray Without Ceasing Conference in Buena Park, CA Episode Overview Peace sounds simple — until life gets loud. In this episode, we dig into a comforting promise Jesus made: "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid." (John 14:27) But if that promise is real, why do so many of us still feel anxious, drained, and restless? The problem isn't the promise — it's the barriers we build (often without realizing it) that keep us from receiving it.  In This Episode Barrier #1 — Guilt About Needing Alone Time We live in a culture that rewards busyness and equates constant availability with love and loyalty. But what happens when your soul desperately needs to be still and you feel selfish for wanting that? We explore why rest isn't a spiritual weakness — it's a necessity — and how guilt can quietly rob you of the very space where peace is found. Barrier #2 — Our Relationships With Other People Sometimes the people closest to us are the greatest source of our unrest. Conflict, unmet expectations, people-pleasing, and broken trust can make peace feel completely out of reach. We talk about what it looks like to hold onto God's peace even when our relationships are messy and unresolved. Barrier #3 — Not Being Able to Rest in Jesus' Peace This one is subtle but powerful: we can know the peace of Christ exists and still not fully receive it. Whether it's perfectionism, control, or just not knowing how to let go — we walk through why surrendering to peace can feel harder than it sounds, and what it practically looks like to stop striving and start trusting. Key Takeaway The peace Jesus offers isn't the absence of hard circumstances — it's a settled confidence in the middle of them. Fear doesn't have to have the final word. Reflection Questions Where in your life are you feeling the least at peace right now? Which of the three barriers resonates most with you? Are you carrying guilt about rest or quiet time? What would it look like to give yourself permission to slow down? Is there a relationship in your life that's disrupting your peace? How might you bring that before God this week? What's one small step you can take to practice resting in Jesus' peace — not just believing it exists, but actually receiving it? Scripture to Sit With This Week John 14:27 — "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you..." Romans 12:18 — "If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone." Philippians 4:6-7 — "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition..." Matthew 11:28 — "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Isaiah 26:3 — "You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you." Connect & Share If this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who needs a reminder that God's peace is for them — right now, exactly as they are. Don't forget to follow, leave a review, and reach out — we love hearing how these conversations are landing with you.   📧 Email: [email protected] 📱 Instagram:@AudreyTShelby 🌐 Website: www.praywithoutceasingministries.com 🎙️ Leave a Review: Apple Podcasts  

Join us for the 2026 Pray Without Ceasing Conference in Buena Park, CA Episode Overview Peace sounds simple — until life gets loud. In this episode, we dig into a comforting promise Jesus made: "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid." (John 14:27) But if that promise is real, why do so many of us still feel anxious, drained, and restless? The problem isn't the promise — it's the barriers we build (often without realizing it) that keep us from receiving it.  In This Episode Barrier #1 — Guilt About Needing Alone Time We live in a culture that rewards busyness and equates constant availability with love and loyalty. But what happens when your soul desperately needs to be still and you feel selfish for wanting that? We explore why rest isn't a spiritual weakness — it's a necessity — and how guilt can quietly rob you of the very space where peace is found. Barrier #2 — Our Relationships With Other People Sometimes the people closest to us are the greatest source of our unrest. Conflict, unmet expectations, people-pleasing, and broken trust can make peace feel completely out of reach. We talk about what it looks like to hold onto God's peace even when our relationships are messy and unresolved. Barrier #3 — Not Being Able to Rest in Jesus' Peace This one is subtle but powerful: we can know the peace of Christ exists and still not fully receive it. Whether it's perfectionism, control, or just not knowing how to let go — we walk through why surrendering to peace can feel harder than it sounds, and what it practically looks like to stop striving and start trusting. Key Takeaway The peace Jesus offers isn't the absence of hard circumstances — it's a settled confidence in the middle of them. Fear doesn't have to have the final word. Reflection Questions Where in your life are you feeling the least at peace right now? Which of the three barriers resonates most with you? Are you carrying guilt about rest or quiet time? What would it look like to give yourself permission to slow down? Is there a relationship in your life that's disrupting your peace? How might you bring that before God this week? What's one small step you can take to practice resting in Jesus' peace — not just believing it exists, but actually receiving it? Scripture to Sit With This Week John 14:27 — "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you..." Romans 12:18 — "If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone." Philippians 4:6-7 — "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition..." Matthew 11:28 — "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Isaiah 26:3 — "You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you." Connect & Share If this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who needs a reminder that God's peace is for them — right now, exactly as they are. Don't forget to follow, leave a review, and reach out — we love hearing how these conversations are landing with you.   📧 Email: [email protected] 📱 Instagram:@AudreyTShelby 🌐 Website: www.praywithoutceasingministries.com 🎙️ Leave a Review: Apple Podcasts

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