Ep 137 You’re not inconsistent… you’re just being the pen trying to act like the crystal episode artwork

EPISODE · Mar 27, 2026 · 20 MIN

Ep 137 You’re not inconsistent… you’re just being the pen trying to act like the crystal

from THE TASH TALKS PODCAST · host Natasha Clarke

You’re not inconsistent… you’re just operating from an identity that no longer matches where you want to go.In this episode, I’m breaking down why changing your behaviour isn’t working—and the real reason you keep snapping back into old patterns (even when you know what to do).We’re diving into the neuroscience behind identity, how your brain is wired for familiarity over success, and why you can’t become the “crystal” while still seeing yourself as the “pen.”If you’ve ever:Written the post then watered it down before hitting publishAvoided selling even when you know you shouldFelt like you’re constantly starting over with consistencyThis episode will hit.Because the shift you need isn’t another strategy…It’s who you believe you are.✨ Inside this episode:Why behaviour change alone doesn’t stickThe subconscious patterns keeping you playing smallThe neuroscience of identity (and why your brain resists change)How to start shifting into the version of you who already has what you wantThis is your reminder:You don’t become her by trying harder…You become her by deciding you already are.Click here for deets on REWIRESend me a DM here to chat about working together 1:1Learn how to create messaging that converts followers into buyers daily in the Subconscious Scripting Workshop 

You’re not inconsistent… you’re just operating from an identity that no longer matches where you want to go.In this episode, I’m breaking down why changing your behaviour isn’t working—and the real reason you keep snapping back into old patterns (even when you know what to do).We’re diving into the neuroscience behind identity, how your brain is wired for familiarity over success, and why you can’t become the “crystal” while still seeing yourself as the “pen.”If you’ve ever:Written the post then watered it down before hitting publishAvoided selling even when you know you shouldFelt like you’re constantly starting over with consistencyThis episode will hit.Because the shift you need isn’t another strategy…It’s who you believe you are.✨ Inside this episode:Why behaviour change alone doesn’t stickThe subconscious patterns keeping you playing smallThe neuroscience of identity (and why your brain resists change)How to start shifting into the version of you who already has what you wantThis is your reminder:You don’t become her by trying harder…You become her by deciding you already are.Click here for deets on REWIRESend me a DM here to chat about working together 1:1Learn how to create messaging that converts followers into buyers daily in the Subconscious Scripting Workshop

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