Ep. 14 ~ Marriage 911: Somebody Save My Marriage!

What if what's destroying yr marriage started long before you were born?  Couples Counselor Frank De Gracia uncovers generational patterns of marriage killers that sabotage silently–and how to break free from them before the divorce.Frank explains: "If there's a divorce happening now, it's probably because of unresolved issues in your grandparents & in your parents" This offers both cause & cure – while we can't change our history, we can change our trajectory. THERE IS HOPE!From groundbreaking research, Frank introduces the "Four Horsemen" that predict divorce with 90% accuracy. Most revealing is his discussion of how men & women communicate differently during conflict. And the most transformative moment? It comes as Frank explains the role of  vulnerability in healing relationships. Whether you're in a struggling marriage or just want to strengthen a healthy one, this episode offers practical wisdom for turning toward each other rather than away in difficult moments. As Frank powerfully states, "If I can help a couple, I can help a family. If I can help a family, I can help a community." Listen now to uncover how small changes can transform your relationship from battlefield to sanctuary.IG @DawnOBrienHIFB Dawn O'Brien HIwww.ChooseAloha.orgIG @alohaalivepodcastyoutube.com/@AlohaAlivePodcast