EP 14 - Urgency

Welcome to another episode of Parenting Untapped! In this honest and relatable conversation, Aly and Tony tackle one of the most common frustrations in parent–teen relationships — why teens seem to move so slow. From getting out of bed to leaving the house on time, this episode breaks down the clash between parental urgency and a teen’s sense of time.Through real-life examples, playful banter, and thoughtful reflection, Aly explains how teens often believe they have more time than they actually do, while Tony shares why urgency and punctuality matter so much in adulthood, work, and life. Together, they explore how comfort, habits, and parental “backup” can unintentionally slow teens down — and what both sides can do to meet in the middle.This episode sheds light on the difference between being slow and being unmotivated, and why teens can be extremely responsible when something truly matters to them.In this episode:Why teens struggle with urgency and time awarenessThe disconnect between parental expectations and teen realityHow comfort and routine impact independenceWhy nagging doesn’t work — and often makes things worseThe role parents play in unintentionally slowing teens downHow schedules can help teens manage time betterWhy urgency is tied to motivation and prioritiesPreparing teens for college, work, and real-world responsibilityWhether you’re a parent tired of waiting by the door, a teen who feels rushed and misunderstood, or a family trying to improve daily routines, this episode offers humor, empathy, and practical insight you can actually use.🎧 Tune in to Parenting Untapped — where real conversations help parents and teens understand each other better.