EP.147: Why Situationships Are So Hard To Let Go Of

hi everyone! in this week's episode, i talk everything situationships, from whether or not they're toxic, to how to know if you should cut it off, red flags to look for, what to do when one of you catches feelings, & more! enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!  FOLLOW MY NEW IG PAGE! http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcast  LISTEN ON SPOTIFY/APPLE MUSIC/ETC: https://anchor.fm/stella-rae  FOLLOW ME ON TIKTOK: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherself  join my discord server! https://discord.gg/9D8M7QXynM  my GoodReads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-rae  MERCH: http://bit.ly/stellaraemerch  follow me on IG http://instagram.com/stella.rae  follow me on twitter http://twitter.com/stellarae  follow me on pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/stellaraeherself/  support the podcast! http://anchor.fm/stella-rae/support  support the podcast! use this amazon link when making purchases http://amzn.to/2u0WGeR  my fav books/products/health: www.amazon.com/shop/stellarae   listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9  listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182  Articles/Videos referenced:   patriarchal dating red flags: https://www.instagram.com/p/CnOAA-VBTwF/?hl=en  10 Signs You're In a 'Situationship': https://www.instyle.com/lifestyle/hump-day/what-is-a-situationship  My Situationship Breakup Hurt More Than Ending My 5-Year Relationship: https://www.refinery29.com/en-gb/situationship-relationship-painful-breakup #stellaraepodcast  00:00 - 01:12 what is a situationship?  01:12 - 01:50 why “I love deep convos” annoys me  01:50 - 02:32 situationships aren’t inherently bad  02:32 - 03:52 why casual hookups aren’t beneficial to women  03:52 - 05:20 men who want girlfriends but don’t want to be boyfriends  05:20 - 07:30 what to do if you like your situationship  07:30 - 08:36 bread crumbing  08:36 - 09:05 find someone who wants the same thing as you  09:05 - 09:36 “Attached” book  09:36 - 11:00 why breaking up with a situationship feels worse than a relationship  11:00 - 12:17 paying attention to how YOU feel  12:17 - 16:32 answering your Q’s about situationships  16:32 - 20:17 signs you’re dealing with a patriarchal male  20:17 - 20:32 outro :)